Let me explain a bit of where I'm coming from. I was always a natural at the game, I met a girl and dated her for 7 years, got engaged and almost married her. Anyways things didn't work out. Needless to say, I was out the game for a long time, I am rusty and then I came across that pickup artist show that mystery has on tv. Inevitably I read the game and now Im studying up on social dynamics and social behavioral patterns and all that. I am not looking to for ONS or random flings I am looking for that, so my game is slightly different as I'm looking for a long term outcome.



So I met this girl, 100% my type, 9 years younger than me though but that can be worked around. Lucky for me I have managed to spend some time with her. Although I started the process just before I got into the PUA thing. Ive known her for a few months and she has been dating other people so I tried like an AFC to get to know her and be the nice guy. That worked as well as a brick life boat!

to cut a long story short Ive been pulling a few routines on her when I can, but our interactions have been very short and sporadic so I have not been able to game her. Anyways I tried to make a plan to get her alone for a dinner and she responded like this.

"i dnt knw u too well and itd b weird being alne wit u. . nt cz i thnk u gna rape me, bt cz itsa uneasy feelin 4 me" ( thats word for word, this happened 3 hours ago over a chat program). I nearly lost my mind. My first thought was " Thats it! give up you are fucked!" Then it was like I had mystery or some other awesome PUA on my shoulder saying ... "Dude neg her and start building some interest" and I did.

To cut a long story short I have been chatting with her for over 4 hours tonight. Its been funny, its been serious, its been about things we like and love, food, animals, polotics, music, pick it we have chatted about it. I think that I have averted a crisis here and learned a lesson.

Dont rush the game, adapt to the target, sometimes you cant go from intro to kiss in one or two days. Sometimes it can take longer.Just stick to the script and adjust the speed.

I hope that my turmoil helps somebody out there.

Feel free to comment.

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To be honest I have no idea how you turned this around. From her being so uncomfortable with you that she mentioned rape... big turn around....

The rape mention if you read. She said its NOT that I think u are going to rape me. She was just feeling uncomfortable for some wierd reason.. I have social proof from like 30 of her friends. lol.

As for the turn around I said to her "Well then we had better spend some time getting to know each other better" Simple line but it worked. I got 4 solid hours of chat. It was very close though.

Things have been chilled the last day or so. Ive been busy with work so away from my PC and also it was voting day in SA today so I will try catch up with her again tonight.

Ill update when I have something.

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I am what I am today, but tomorrow Ill be something different!