So I hooked up with this girl at a party at my house one saturday night, no sarge, but good stuff. I got her number and the next thursday we went out for a few drinks. Went well.

Well the next week she was going to Florida for a week and she suggested we chill before she leaves. I suggested I make dinner at my place. So Tuesday, the day before she left, she came over. We had dinner hung out for a bit, and we made out and she left. She seemed a little standoffish after dinner though.

She text me that night word for word "you cant at all guess that im not ready for anything yet? idk haha." Clear LJBF. I played it super cool and told her to hold up we just met and I was not looking for a relationship. Although I played it off, I honestly thought I was out because dinner at home may have been to romantic to early. The next day I told her I was a bit confused, I didnt want a relationship but if she doesnt want to chill I'm cool with that, no need to waste eachothers time. She said that she shouldnt have even said anything and we should continue to hang out.

I didnt talk to her for three days and she hit me up. IOI. We bullshitted for a bout a week through text both making loose plans that didnt pan out. Things like Im going to the bar tonight maybe we should meet up. We are both very busy professionally and socially.

So this weekend she hit me up on Sunday afternoon, and flat out told me she didnt have anything going on next week. Obviously wanting me to ask her out. I did and we have a solid date for Wednesday.

My question here is, am I out? Is this date bullshit, or is she still interested? How should I play the date? Its either mini golf if its nice out, or dinner downtown if its shitty.

It's always ON! Unless the girl is totally ignoring me.

I do not really see this as a LJBF, though the romantic dinner wasn't probably the best idea.
On the other hand, try to be congruent. If you really like her and want her to be your GF, don't pretend like you are "not ready" for a relationship. Women are usually very sensitive to incongruence even if only on a subconscious level.

If I'm unsure about a girl, I'll tell her.
If I want only a fling. I'll tell her.
If I really want her to be my GF. I'll tell her.
(obviously not the minute I met her, but it's not your case anyway)

Whatever it is you want, just go for it, and don't be ashamed of what you want in your life! EVER!

BTW: The minigolf is a great idea. The dinner not so much in my opinion. I hate official dates myself. How about a billiard instead? You can do a lot of kino, tease her and have fun.

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