I have a haircut tomorrow with a great girl - full package - the next step is to score her number.

Let me set it up - been seeing her proffesionally for a year now, so between 5-10 times I'd say. Great chats, she defineitly seems interested: "We're not supposed to date clients but if we were to ever, we'd have to keep it quiet", and not to mention she just totally seems game.

If you have any pointers and tips on hairdressers/sylists plese let me know!
I also need your opinion. Do I call 10mins before hand when at Starbucks and offer to pick her up something? Her + the other girls?

Its my day off, I was thinking just nice pair of blue jeans, black loafers, white button up shirt with a sports jacket...or white vneck?

If you already have good knowledge on gaming, then I'll be brief. Simply treat her the same you would treat any other hired gun. Keep in mind, she is PAID to be nice to you, and her working and chatting is something she is obligated to do. My aunt who is a hair dresser always vents to me about how she hates being fake and making small talk to people, when she really doesn't want to. Not trying to cock block you here, just tell you to not misinterpret fake IOIs.

Oh and calling and asking if she wants Starbucks, NO--AFC. When you get your haircut, make sure you are dominate in keeping the frame. Snip her threads every time you notice she's going on auto-pilot. Gaming hired-guns isn't easy.

psychx, where were you when I needed ya buddy? It went horrible. First and foremost I was 10mins late so while she did the cutting, she had someone else do the colouring, shampoo etc. Definitely nothing like the times prior to - was going to do the Starbucks but didn’t know if it would be crossing the AFC line, glad I didn’t. I did apologize though, more than once.

Anyway, it bombed. Was over thinking everything, all over the place, saying shit I just shouldn't...I was never like that before...fuck...

Her and I have had some good convo's though, she's ended up telling me stuff she hasn’t told the other girls she works with which are her good friends, she'll be telling me something and they'll mention "hey you didn’t tell me that etc".

Through convo's I'm aware of a few other hang out's and was thinking of get some buds together and keep the info close to my chest so even they don't know - hit these places up a few times - taking her into equal territory?

Honestly, the best thing you can do is just work on getting out of your own head. There was no reason for you not to engage her casually and normally even if there was another hair dresser working on your color. In fact it would have been the perfect opportunity to show social awareness and convey higher value. How? By engaging her friend and building rapport, you increase the overall oddity of getting to hang with your target off the clock. I'm sure you can figure out why her coworkers liking you would vest itself into your goals.

Now for the next time you both meet: stop going in with some solid end of "I must hang with her outside of the salon" concept. Going in and talking to her with this mindset will telegraph your intentions, and anything you say subsequently will be perceived as scripted and fake. Be casual and calm, get to know her on a deeper level, and build rapport. Finding commonality is key here, and then it shouldn't be too difficult to number-close to call her for the concert you both agreed to go to! Good luck!

P.S. Relax......