First off she has no proof and no idea it was me who tried to add her, but I have a fake account and found out she was using Facebook after she told me she had closed it. She had her ex boyfriend on there and somehow blocked me but my fake name found her. I tried to add her as a friend with the fake name and she phoned me ten minutes later trying to see my reaction I guess.

She had been kinda quiet not speaking with me all day. She phoned up so I felt weird and she asked me to tell me my full name so she could add me on facebook. I felt a bit nervous and she might of knew but tried talking about other stuff. Her phone cut off(always does) and when I tried to call back she didn't pick up lol. I learned that she only phoned me to test if it was me and didn't even ask how my day was.

So is it weird if she thinks it's me? plus do you think she would, there is no proof?? I did tell her last week I had a friend with a very similar name to the fake account(forgot how similar) and I called her few hours before I added her with the fake name. It's been 2 months and she is losing interest and things are not going anywhere really. I do like her alot but can see her thinking it was me or one of my friends.

I've had this happen the other way around to me. It's transparent. She might have believed that your friend had found her and so she wanted to make sure you didn't know and set it up as a "hey I'm back on facebook", but it seems less likely.

Doesn't sound like she's your girl...

If you're insecure enough to be doing these things then your relationship is probably doomed. You need to look inwards and commit to some changes.

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Yeah what I am saying is how can she prove it? she says people add her all the time.

She is always going about Facebook and saying she logs in sometimes then disables it. So I knew she was lying and then found her name on a new account she made which I got from looking at her ex boyfriends profile.

She did tell me last week she was speaking to him again and that she met him. So obviously that got me wondering. If she puts that together she might realise but I hope not.

I really get on with her but she has started to do whatever she wants. She even mentioned to me she put she is single on the profile and I sighed because she has said that a few times but knows we have had something.

Since the beggining she was talking to me like we were official. Ringing me everyday, sending sweet txts with tons of kisses and talking about things we could do months ahead. She even spoke about kids and working towards moving in together. Although I know that was soon considering we had a few dates, she just came across like she wanted to take things a bit slower.

It was only intil the last few weeks that she made it obvious she wasn't ready to jump into anything and most likely still has feelings for her ex. So yeah, I do have a right to be annoyed at her. She showed me alot of interest and then just starts backing off because she isn't mature enough to know what she wants.

Now I'm afraid my normal daily calling will be shuned even more and I will come across creepy, and a freeze out will make me look guilty. Longest I've gone without trying to contact her is 2 days in the last 2 and half months.

Sounds like you have a case of "Oneitis". I can understand having a crush on this women. I too have been there.

My suggestion is to take a real good look at yourself, be honest, and start to improve and become the person you want the world to view you as.

It's time to man-up and start being more confident. It will be a journey but if you start practicing your social gameon people you don't know or care about it, over time, you'll imrove.

This woman may be a motivating factor to improve but I will guess by the time you have increased your social game you may not have the same feelings. Appproach the practice of social game as improving yourself. In the process if you have some good interactions with some nice woman that will be a plus.

If you are looking for some good reading and insight to improve social game you might want to pic up "Rules of the game" Neil Strauss. It's a 30 day walk through of things you can slowly do to improve how "people" (Woman) will view you. It's not the golden ticket but a walk through on social dynamics. I read it and will have to say not only has it improved my interaction with females it has also improved my sales career and tips when I tend bar part time.

Take it for what it is. If your not comfortable with trying to improve yourself then except your reality.

You can pick it up at any major book store. Barnes & Noble.etc.

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