im new to the game, and i have a couple of questions. first off, i would like some help on building comfort with a woman, what are the basic steps in doing so or things that might help me in that area. if there is already a post about this, please lead me to it ...thanks in advanced!

Try mirroring her body language. When you do this, people will naturally feel more comfortable around you. Pay attention to how she's sitting, standing, moving, ect. Don't copy it to a "T" rather let her set the pace and you casually mimic her while maintaining a calm cool and relaxed composure.

When she is speaking... pay close attention to what she is saying. Nod your head and acknowledge that you are understanding what she is saying. Fill gaps of the conversation with a combination of teasing her for what she is saying... and asking in depth questions that will elicit a more intimate response. When you ask continued questions about what she has already discussed she will feel a lot more comfortable around you because you are showing an interest in what she is saying.


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thanks alot! i had a date with a woman that same day i did that post, and well it actually went great! now that i think about it, i was actually mimicing her body language, and ask questions and also teased a lil bit, without really even noticing what i was doing. i was jus kinda nervous though. i purchased a copy of ¨the pick up artist¨by mystery last year, and kinda used that but i still have alot more questions!