I am not sure what type of girl this is, but I have no idea how to get her. Please help!
So I met this girl through a mutual friend. There was HUGE IOIs when I first met her. She asked for my name and asked a lot about me. I gave her a very good handshake and she commented on it.
Anyway we went to a party, all of us. We were just dancing by ourselves most of the time. She and her friend moved around the dance party. I did not follow her. I did bump into her later and I used some stealth seduction techniques and we started grinding for a bit. After a while she kinda stopped. I didnt talk when we dance. (are we supposed to do that?) Anyway she started dancing else where and I didnt follow her. I walked around. I bumped into her again later and she said shes tired so we went somewhere quiet, far away from the party, and just talked. She was leaning onto me and I did some kino, held her hand, move her around etc.
Anyway I didnt get the k-close that night. I number closed her though. That was our only real interaction.
After that we just texted back and forth. But she keeps giving me sht test and I think she's being "sassy"?
me: hey crazyface! didnt cause any troubles after i left last night did ya?
her: lol mades lots of friends. it was a great night! how about you?
me: haha i had a great night w friends and i met an awesome person (referring to her). btw you should come to [banquet] tonight!
her: im sick
me:
i hope you feel better soon
her: (SHT TEST #1) Lol thanks kid
me: Kid? Come on u know not to say stuff like that
her: Says you?
me: Haha cute
her: no response
some other day after some conversation:
her: btw you went out with amanda right?
me: I see u did some stalking. Yea we didnt work out.
her: no both of my friends recognized you lol.
me: Haha ok is that a problem w u? Cuz if its then its cool.
her: hmmm yeah idk. lets be friends? You seem super fun
(she went along with it? hmmm...)
me: friends first? (i think i did a bad move here)
her: haha yeah we'll see
me: Haha i dont see a big deal if we go out if ur interested. Besides it will be super fun.
her: The thing is im not really looking for anything serious..In fact im pretty sure im relationship challenged. im sorry if I gave off a different impression o..o
me: haha im not that serious either...sorry if i gave off that impression! I just want to see where this goes.
her: Where do you want it to go
me: If nothing else you seem interesting and would make a great friend
her: awesum..i want that too
me: ok well listen, lmk when u get better and we can grab coffee.
her: yeah taht sounds great. I feel this got unncessarily complicated.
some other day:
me: hey nerdball! whats cooking? I just saw the cutest squirrel gathering nuts in the park and it made me think of u
her: lol how? I bet it was fat and annoyed at you (another SHT TEST? i just ignored her)
I will spare you the other texts, but heres the latest one:
me: wat r u doing for spring break?
her: not going to montreal with you guys (I think her friend told me about me going there with her friend) (SHT TEST 3)
me: Sweetie, I didnt ask what ur not doing...Ok lemme guess, ur taking a speed kniting class so you can make me a scarf, how sweet of u!
--no response--
I showed 3 SHT TEST here. What kind of girl is this? My texting strategies seem to have no effect on her...Please help. She might be my oneitis and I mightve fallen for her.
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