so its pretty easy for me to get a girls number but the trouble is after Ive got the number i have huge problems in the text game and in the phone game, don't know how often to text, how fast should i reply to a text, and if texting before calling is a good move?.........i also huge brain farts and don't know what to talk about....

Wait 5-45 minutes depending on the situation. Send 2 texts for every 3 that she sends you. Start calling instead of texting as soon as you can. Don't ever text something like "hey are you free for me to call", it's weak sauce, just call.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

i really don't like calling because i always run out of things to talk about, im great at face to face conversations but the phone is where i have to most trouble at.

depending how quickly she replies, you dont want to wait too long between the first few tests. If you write her a text and she writes back in a min or two...and then you wait 10 min to reply -- shes going to wonder why you sent her the text in the first place if you werent even by your phone for the next ten min. So in general, you want to stay there and write back in a min or so....get a nice lil chat (maybe 5 texts in a row---depending what you say). And then end the chat.

In the future---when SHE sends you a random text....you can surely wait about 5-10 min before you make a reply....or when you two talk a 3rd or 4th time....after a text or two, you can randomly wait 5 min before a reply just to get her wondering why you arent writing back.....but if you do it the first time, you run the risk of looking like a jerk....and there isnt anything good about that. GL!
Cheers.