Been gaming this bar waitress for a month now. I go in about once a week, talk to her for about 20-30 minutes each time.

She's given me IOIs off the chain. told me she's about to break up with her boyfriend, got upset when i didn't give her enough attention, etc.

anyway, i go in once a week,and she and i always have a blast going back and forth. i can tell she loves it.

thing is, i can't get much comfort going. given that she has to get up and take orders from time ot time we haven't had a sustained conversation.

is it possible to ask for her number before I've even begun comfort? i've gotten her to qualify herself and the attraction phase has run it's course- we're both tired of the nonstop flirting. but how do i isolate her to actually have a convo?

one more question, should i go in more often? once a week might have been good for attraction, but by now, i don't want to whittle in her mind.

Just say to her "look darling, i have blue eyes and low flies which is exactly your type so lets get it on". You need a Week in leeks pickup school then you wouldn't be over analyzing ioi's etc you big weirdo.

To the commenter above, I'd rather him over analysing ioi's than using stuff from Mr Leek's weak chat up lines.

The problem is transitioning the pick up from the resteraunt to another location. Afterwards it's basically hitting like normal.
If I was in your situation I wouldn't be indirect about it, she sees you once a week everyweek and as you present it you make her feel good everyday your there. I work in a bar at a 4 star hotel and I highly value the guests who give up a bit of their time for even just the smallest of conversations even if I have under a minute to chat. Who knows, maybe she shares the same view point as me. Just be honest, she's cute, maybe she has a nice smile. Compliment it and then state that they should meet up sometime in the future. If she agrees, state a place and leave the time to her as she does have to work. Do it when she passes you the bill, it's perfect timing. Thank her for her service, smile and leave. If anything it'll make her day.

Good luck being yourself, not a student of "Mr Leek."

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Another guy on a forum that hasn't got a clue. And likely is not getting laid. I don't think you have the full measure of the leek method friend.

keep it simple. Wait till she says something funny, you laugh, and say "your fun, you should come to the _______with me on Sunday" Exchange numbers for the meet up.