Hi,

This is one of the issues I am facing right now. Even last week, I opened a set, it hooked and it was going well. There were interested in talking. I was running some attraction routines, DHV stuff etc..but even though they thought I was cool and interested in talking, they were not attracted to me. so they left after about 20 mins. In other words they were not really into me. So, how can I get girls into me? Will lots of kino do it? I dont usually kino unless I think they really like me. i need some advice on how to create strong attraction after hooking the set. Thanks

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I'd say you should flirt more and talk less, so yes that means touch them. It's hard to get a girl's heart racing with desire if you're just chatting to her for twenty minutes ... Touching is fun and easy and a good way to figure out if she's into you or not. For example, if she pulls away, no biggie, you just need to make her more comfortable. If she doesn't pull away and looks at your eyes or laughs, that's good. And if she touches you back straight away or later during conversation, you're doing solid.

If some but not all the girls are responding well, neg the ones who aren't, e.g "is she always like this? that must suck! ; )" If they're all not responding use a cocky and funny attitude until they warm to you or just bail, their loss.

But the important thing is to keep the first interaction as brief as possible and leave a good impression. If it's dying down and you can't isolate, make an excuse and get their numbers so you can talk later. At parties I tend to just go talk to other people and come back in a while with a huge grin.

Have you field-tested this?

Because in my experience asking if a girl who isn't enjoying your company is "always like this" is a recipe for "yes, now fuck off" or "no, just when you're around" type responses.

Better to just have fun with the girls who ARE into you and isolate them. If their friend is being lame and you're being fun, they'll want to hang out with you more anyway and won't allow her to drag them away. Chances are, if everyone else is having fun, she'll eventually get into the spirit of things rather than wanting to be a stick in the mud.

As for "generating attraction," why bother?

Go into every set ASSUMING attraction and ASSUMING you're fucking awesome and people would have to be RETARDED to not want to hang out with you. If they're not into it after 5 minutes, just tell them to have a great night and talk to somebody else. What on earth is the point of ploughing for 10, 15 minutes with a set that isn't into you when there's probably a bunch of chicks further down the bar/street that would absolutely LOVE you?

The attitude is

I know I'm the shit. This is who I am - I'm comfortable and happy with it. I make no apologies for who I am, what I do, or what I want. I'm fun, sociable and this is my style of humour. If you're into it, great, let's hang out. If not, there's something wrong with you and I don't need to waste my time for a second trying to "convince" you I'm cool because I have nothing to prove to anyone.

The opener is

"Hey! Are you guys fun? Yes? Awesome, me too! Hi five!"

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You'd probably use some other neg, yeah, I was struggling to think of one. Just involving the girl in the conversation once in a while so that you're not creating an obstacle would be my goal.

I would agree with you in that I don't stick around for long if there's no attraction either. So yours is a good attitude to have and just a generally enjoyable way to go about your business, I would think, the confidence is great. But at the same time, I don't think it's demeaning yourself to make an effort to hook unresponsive girls. I mean if you overlook all the people who don't think you're cool and fun straight away, you're missing a lot of people who could probably be interested with a bit of persistence aimed at just them.

Tisk tisk

Do yourself a favor and stop neging. Neging is a good tool, if used properly, to lower the infamous "bitch shield". It will do squat to generate attraction. You will lose a lot more targets by neging you will win them.

Teasing, building tension and kino will do a lot more for you then neging. But like Blondguy said, don't wait for signs of attraction, assume attraction.

One last thing that comes to mind: Be genuinly interested in your target. If you are not, then go find one that interests you. If you are interested it will be a lot easier to interest her.

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