Today at the gym i finally talked to a girl i have been trying to talk to for 2 months now. I would always catch her looking back at me but when we would get close or pass by she would look down. On the top of that she always had her ipod on. So i was waiting so that right time to come to say something with out making it weird.
So i finally got to know her today, she actually started a conversation after i came up to her and broke the ice. I though everything went well, so i want to go for the gold and ask her out this weekened if i see her at the gym tomm. My question is should i? or should i wait a bit or should i feel her out a litttle more next time i talk to her. I see this girl almost everyday and i dont want to screw it up. Annnd that she is sooooooo hot i want to play my cards right and get her lol. Let me know what you think.

The game at the gym is usually slow, it's kinda similar to the day game. If i were you, i would keep talking to her try to do some kino if possible and exchange numbers before you ask her out.

The only thing that matters is will she go out with you if you ask.

If you think she is interested and comfortable enough to go out with you then ask away, if you think she is not, build more attraction and comfort by talking to her more.

Play solid game if you do not want to lose any more girl in your life

Cheers

If you know what you're doing like making good conversations that will not lead her to thinking of you as "just a friend who talks to me in the gym". It's gonna be hella hard later to get her to think of you as a guy she will date. So if you're gonna be waiting around and not asking her out make sure you don't come off as a guy who she would only consider a friend.

Rather than if you had asked her out right away you don't give her the chance to think of you as a friend, but you also risk getting getting a quick yes or no answer without her even hearing you out and finding you to be a cool person.

In this situation I would ask her out as soon as possible. Dragging things on for me and not asking out has usually led me to a lot of resistance from girls who already think of me as a friend because I never made a move.

Another way of being less direct with dating is just making a casual comment during the conversation that you think she is cute. Then later in the conversation ask for her NUMBER ONLY and suggest drinks.

Do not suggest drinks this way:
"i want to take you on on a date for drinks" HB reply: i have a boyfriend.
"i want to take you out sometime" HB reply: i have a boyfriend.


This is how you suggest an indirect date that doesn't force her to say that she has a boyfriend.
"i wanna get your number" hb reply: "why?" PUA reply:"so we can grab some sodas and listen to kickass music this weekend"

Of course you suggest this INDIRECT date after you said "she's cute or pretty" somewhere in the conversation. This way she knows you find her attractive. And she can't say "i have a boyfriend" because you did not ask her "hey let's date and start a relationship, instead when you said she was cute it just came off as a compliment.




To sum this up:

a compliment "ur cute" + indirect date "lets grab sodas and listen to music"


Will likely not make her say "i have a boyfriend" like 99% of girls say lol and not even give you a shot.

Great postes, thanks.

Soo today i learned few interesting things about this chick. I saw her today and she waved to me with a big smile. Before i had a good chance to come up to her and talk some guy comes up to me that i just met at the gym which i have seem him talking to her few times and asks how do u know her. I just told him that i met her few days ago and right away he says "she is crazy". lol Apperently they were talking for a month and he tired hanging out with her but she would never go out with him but they text alot everyday he says. Anyways he told me she just started talking to some kid at the gym like a week ago. The guy isnt too bad looking and Im not trying to sound cocky but i think i top him by at least 3 points i also think that im build better. So now my question is, do i got for it now? or wait?...I feel like if i go for it i really have to step it up or play loose like u guys said above. Oh she is also 22 if that helps ha.