Hey guys! I have a very interesting situation that has me the most confused I've been in a longg time with a girl. Here it is:

I met this girl through a friend, and her name was Megan. She is a 9.5-10ish and has the exact look of what I want in a girl. So I started running game, but nothing was hooking at all. Literally, nothing. I have run game and hooked up with a lot of 9s and 10s but something about Megan was completely different. By far the weirdest girl I have ever run game on. Since nothing hooked, I just gave up and moved on.

Months later, on my birthday, she wrote on my facebook wall saying happy birthday and INSISTING that we hang out soon. Although I was confused I just started running game and things were going well. To make a long story short she lives 2 hours away and she said she wanted me to visit. I said yes right away, especially since things were going well. Here was the last part of the text convo, and you'll see where it gets interesting.

Me: Hey so I'm all set to stay the night?
Megan: Yupp
Me: I'm wicked excited to see you!
Megan: I know me too!
Me: I was thinking what we could do is get something to eat, get back watch a movie, snuggle and see where it goes
Megan: Aw that sounds like the best night ever lol
Me: Yup! You better be ready
Megan: Haha okay I will be
Me: Yupp we could just snuggle and have fun
Megan: Haha ok
Me: Haha word - just curious, when did you know you were first attracted to me?
Megan: Dude we're friends
Me: Haha I know I didn't mean that in a relationship way

The main reason I kept making semi-testing sexual comments is because I don't want to drive 2 hours and have nothing happen (not to sound like a typical guy haha). We talked on the phone and texted a lot too and she was flirting and everything was going fine, but when she said the "dude we're friends" it really confused me. All my friends (who have decent game) say that she doesn't make any sense in terms of her logic, which makes things more confusing haha. Any ideas?

"Me: Haha word - just curious, when did you know you were first attracted to me?"


I think you're really making her feel like a whore by asking this. Every time I have tried to control the situation by saying that she is attracted to me right to her face she will always say the opposite or say "whatever".

Chicks just do this because it makes them come off as needy if they're salivating over you and comments like these makes the whole interaction seem as if they're the ones chasing you, which lowers their ego and raises yours.






Megan: Aw Smile that sounds like the best night ever lol

You could have dropped it here look at this "aw" she is trying to lower your value by saying you're cute and she is not super worked up about you telling her that you're gonna do all this sexual shit with her and it doesn't matter what she thinks. she even adds a "lol" as a nervous laugh that chicks do in real life to try and make your sexual situation less serious because she is coming off as easy by allowing a guy to just say "we're snuggling and you automatically will like it"



This is what happens when you convince yourself that the whole situation has to end with sex and that there should not be other option other than her liking you and you two getting it on.
I do understand why you started thinking this way, 2 hour drive just to not fuck a chick is a pain in the ass. But when you gamed her it showed that you were trying to get results and you came off as needy and insecure, which we all know are 2 giant turn offs.

yea thats a very good point man - what would you suggest I do from here?

I think you should've cut it off right there, just my opinion though. It sounded like she was less excited when you repeated yourself a few texts later.

I think you're pushing it too much man, you should ve stopped after
"Me: Yup! You better be ready
Megan: Haha okay I will be "
I also think it might me a shit test cause she seems pretty excited for it but she's doesn't wanna feel like you're getting her easily, instead she's trying to play hard to get.