Hi

I've been getting into Game fairly recently and lately I've been making approaches confidently but the other night and this evening a sticking point cropped up: Converstaions running dry! I keep running out of shit to say, and I've started to become self conscious about it and it's slowly chipping away at my confidence again. Do you have any solid conversational techniques that would enable me to keep a conversation ticking over and thus help me to avoid this horrible situation?

thanx

I have the same problem sometimes. The way I've dealt with it (works tremendously, but still won't hurt to learn convo techniques) If I ever run into a problem where I don't know how to respond, I simply don't. (Depending on what I'm supposed to be responding to) If it's a question or an open ended statement, than just be honest, Otherwise, If it's just a normal statement, and you don't know how to respond, don't.

Leave it up to her to keep the conversation going. If she doesn't keep the convo going, no big deal. Wait it out and text her later or the next day, if she doesn't text you first. When you do this, she'll be wondering why you haven't text her back; One: This will cause u to be on her mind, alot. Two: This will make her feel like she can't interest you and cause her to do more to try to keep your attention.

(Just started studying PUA lately, what I told you above I haven't read in a book or anything, I have very strong natural game from trial and error, and that works for me all the time. -If any other PUA's have anything better or have something to add in on what I've said above, feel free.)

I have the same problem. i also keep running into the problem of switching from C&F to getting more serious by asking questions about her to try and keep the conversation going and they loose interest or something gets miscommunicated......so if someone know of some books or articals that will help then lay it down.

hello everybody, i think we all have been in this situation when u just ran out of things to say or ask, but i think we can get something good out of it, cuz it will cause our minds to work and to think in new ways of avoiding this, now im not saying that this (ran out of things to say) is necesarilly bad, obviously it depends a lot in the situation that u are at the moment, im not an expert but the advices i can give u are this

1 dont lose ur confidence to such a trivial thing like this, it happens to all of us (ran out of conversation topics)

2 instead of staying on a pure conversation level, try to make things more dynamic and fun, add to ur interactions thumb fights or something like that

3 try telling a story, this could serve for other purposes as well, like arousing and seduction and stuff

4 and my personal favorite, just let her do all the talk

I think our problem is were talking and asking questions and not conversing with them to the point they want to do the talking. we need to become great conversationalists.

This is a good idea. There are many techniques out there that will help and I think they are good to learn, but there comes a point that the conversation will end. I don't think that we should feel a great amount of angst because we do not have a great conversation or have great game all of the time. Trying too hard to do that will probably seem really weird and have the opposite effect than what you want.

i just read the mystery method and he has a section on conversation so does tyler on deangelos approaching women DVD.