Last month I was partying hopping with some friends. My friend was giving me a ride home and with him is this girl. I thought she was the girl whom I met at a party previous week so I started talking to her.

She went along with it until my friend told me that this isn't actually the girl I met. After laughing it off, we briefly introduced ourselves before I had to get off.

What's interesting is that 3-4 days later, I received a message from her on facebook. Something like: Hey, so you thought I was xxx the whole time? We never met until xxx introduced us!

I took this as a massive IOI, consider I don't even have her added on facebook. Which means that she had to go and search for my name. Anyway, I replied with a genuine message(Oh I see you at concerts a lot, you are xxx right?) showing interest. But her response are always just 1 line and does not pick up on any topics I bring up.

I am not really aware what phase I am even in with her. My friend told me a lot of people stalk her, so I hope I didn't come off as that. I was planning to ask her on a day 2 after 3-4 messages but now I don't even know if I generated any interest.

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"Don't touch me, I am evil."

The key here is what I like to call "strategic setting." You need to work your way into her set strategically (i.e. - her circle of friends that she tends to go out with). Your friend sounds like the best conduit to this and if this guy is truly your friend, he will pave the way, grease the skids, set the table or whatever the hell metaphor you want to use, to facilitate you and this girl ending up going out together in a group situation. If your friend says lots of guys stalk her, its because she has game and you do NOT want to get entwined in that web. Rather, bring the game to your home field. Get yourself into situations where you can interact and do your PUA routines until you change her mindset. Good Luck!

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Atomicglow