There is this HB at work that is on it. When she first started I ran C&F on her when I could, In the kitchen, smoking breaks etc.

It worked. But once I sensed tht It had worked I got scared, and started avoiding her or keepin contact to a minimum, running away if I managed to gat a laugh out of her so I couldn't undo any good work. She just made me propper nervous.

She always seemed dissapointed when I would but she never seemed to lose interest, and when I had no choice but to speak to her for longer than a few minutes I would try and run C&F again but I would get so nervous Im sure I was closer to boring her to tears.


This went on for a few months but she sat at my desk today and I was forced to try and keep her entertained for the whole day! I forced myself to ride the nerves and did alrite for the majority of the day. She was making it blatently obvious that she is on it, writing flirty coments on my pad like 'you look like a page three model today' and 'my name is bourbon14 and im sooo sexxxy.' She is NOT shy. I felt pressure to entertain her all day, she ran out of work to do early so kept pulling me in to conversations which were fun but as soon as i felt like i had won a point i would retreet back into my work to avoid meesing up which had the opposite effect as she kept moaning about being bored if I wasnt talking to her.


At one point she swapped my lighter for one that she had written 'from HB's Name' on. It was clear that this was a thing that happens but I have NO CLUE what it means or what I am meant to do. HELP! Does anybody know what this is, she made comments about having do it to other guys. I am clueless. IS this a UK thing or can anybody in the US help aswell.



Thanks for taking the time to read I really need help with the whole confidence thing and not running away. BUT MOST OF ALL the whole lighter thing! What do I do with this sodding lighter!

Why do you keep running C&F stuff on her?

You have to transition at some point but it seems like you're stuck in 1st gear.

Months of Cocky & Funny!!!?

Stop entertaining her without a cause and transition!!

Where are you trying to go with this HB?

Seems like you have no intention of anything.

Im not saying to ram sack her just because she's showing you major SOI's(IOI's)but you have to get your shit together.

With a girl like her showing so many IOI's and attraction,there's no need to be using C&F lines on her!!!

C&F is exclusively for HB's who have their bitch shield up.

This chicc doesnt have ASD(anti-slut defense)yet(lol).

You're doing thing backwards.

You should be escalating rapidly and bending over this HB and give her the raunchy/adventurous sex she craves!!

You're playing it cool with a girl who's down already.

You only play it cool,hard to get with a girl who's being a bitch.

Come on!!

Your inner game is super weak so I dont think any tactical advise here can help.

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