Focus Focus Focus!

Think of every set that you guys have had!

Now think Of Every Set that was pretty Fun, engaging, and positive.

I dont know about you guys, but whenever I am in a good set, with great rapport, I do not think of lines, I do not think of transitions, everything flows naturally, as if I am already friends with the girl.

I believe when you reach this focus! many problems will be solved because you and her are both on the same energy level, both state which will be fun or happy, and girls love to have fun, and laugh.

So They're attracted!!!!!!!!

Many guys have attraction questions. But I believe if you focus, try to have fun, try and have a good interaction with someone, actually want to know who they are, what they like, don't like, your interaction will go a lot smoother.


This idea of when things flow naturally can be illustrated when you find a common interest in a girl.


For Example

You: So what tv shows do you watch?

Her: Gossip Girl

You: ahhh gossip girl isn't my thing, 2 much drama for me what else?

Her: 24

You: Really 24 I love 24, Ive been watching it since the first season. So sad its ending now

Her: yeah me 2 I'm really going to miss it. don't you gett irritated that Jack is like superman and can do that?

You: Like when he killed like 20 people and escaped from a russian prison


OK OK OK... I dont know if the show goes like that but look at that.

when you find interest, things you like, or things you are knowledgeable about, you do not think of these cocky funny stories, these negs, DHV stuff.

YOU ARE YOU! Which at the end of the day will be shown on the outer.

A big problem is someone who claims they have a stripper ex girlfriend and the girl can tell in your eyes your b.s'ing.

If you are authentic it will show on the outside. remember that.

So Guys FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS.. LOCK into the set. LOCK IN.

I remember I had an Isolation problem in college.

Problem was when i couldn't isolate the girl and I were not on the same energy level. I was on level 10 trying to attract, and she was on level 6

But when im on 10 and so is she. Shes playing along. She doesn't care about the conversation her friends are having, shes locked into the conversation you 2 are having.


So FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS. And Lock In to the set. This is vauge but in my opinion can help alot.

Yes, this is good; I was talking to my wing and my hypnotherapist about the concept of being 100% percent focused on the task at hand at all times, instead of your mind wandering to other things. That way, you get the most out of everything.