Hey guys, I need some input... I might have already fucked this one up.
Phone game is definetly a weekness of mine, and I find that it is where I am stuck again. I can always tell when I get a girls number for real, or when I get it out of pitty, or so that I'll leave them alone. The last thing I want to do is bug a girl or make them feel uncomfortable, but this time I really don't want to mess up.
One of my buddies lives in a party house. He has three roomates. One of his roomates has a job at a suppliment store, which means naturally he knows a lot of women... hot women. It seems like every night this guy is hooking up with a new girl. He is obviously the alpha of the house.
Anyways, the other night I called my buddy to see if he wanted to drink. He said sure, so I brought over a case, and we started drinking. There wasn't anything going on this night, my buddy and his roomates were just on facebook and playing video games. As we got started drinking, my buddy's roomate who works at the supplement shop mentions that he has a new girl comeing over that he wants to fuck. Truthfully none of us are shocked, and to be honest it was my goal just to observe him and see how he interacts with girls.
She arrives and is gorgeous. HB8-9ish if you ask me. She starts talking to all of us and takes a beer. Immedietly I start wondering if she is comfortable or not drinking with three random guys.
So we are sitting on the couch drinking and watching a horrible movie so we decide to play beerpong instead. We made teams, winning team obiously keeps playing. The roomate that works at the supplement shop was pared with the girl. Throughout the games I kept making eye contact with the girl. She kept smileing whenever I made eye contact. Throughout the night we talked more and more, and I seemed to be hitting it off with her... but I knew there was no way she'd be interested in me over my buddy at the supplement shop. However, I must have been wrong. My buddy and his roomate started texting me to make a move because she was obviously hitting on me. Whenever the supplement shop guy would use the restroom she would talk to me. Whenever they were playing beer pong she would talk to me. She seemed to be ignoring my buddy from the shop all together.
I decided to get her number, so I started a conversation about how my parenter wasn't very good at beer pong, and how I was trying to recruit her as my new partner. She gave me her number, and made sure I spelled her name right. She ever said "You beter text me"... I was shocked.
As the night went on I got more and more drunk, and she went into the supplement store guy's bedroom for the night. I was bummed because I was sure they were fucking... in which case I would delete her number.
Everyone went to bed accept me and my buddy, so we just talked. He said she asked if I was a guy worth getting to know, and my buddy put in a good word. He told me he would find out if she did anything with his roomate, and tell me the next day.
Next day came, and my buddy said that she refused to do anything with his roommate, and said I should shoot her a text.
Our conversation was like this:
Me: Hey its X, What's up?
Her (hr later): Hey! Just got back from the rec. What are you doing?
Me:Just tearing up facebook. Slow night, my friend chickened out of doing a whole bottle of vodka (insider)
Her: Aww, that would have been funny. So you creepin on me on facebook?
Me: No, but I probably should be. I need to scout out my new beerpong partner. (I actually was though
)
Her: Whats your last name? Ill add you.
Me: X
Her: Ok I added you
Me: I might start creepin now
Her: I think I can handle that
I ended the conversation and she texted back about an hour later
Her:So how old are you?
Me: Idk... how old do you think a man this stunning is?
Her: That's not fair, I'm terrible with ages! I'll go with 22.
Me:Terrible guess. Im twenty
Her: Hey, I tried. If you didn't know how old I was how old would you think I'd be?
Me: Between the ages of 18 and 23
Her: oh you think your so smart
Me: I would have been right. But ya you look about twenty.
Her: Ok ok fair enough
Me: So did you already have fall break?
Her: Yes unfortunetly. If you could even call that a break.
Me:Dang, I was hoping you'd have a night off to come hang out with us again.
Her:I have a busy week with school and work, but next week looks good so far
Me: Well reserve a night. I got to get some stuff done, text me tomorrow
Her: Ok sounds good!
Its the next day and she hasn't texted me, which isn't a big deal yet, but what if she doesn't text back and it's still my move? What next? I don't want to blow another opportunity.
I feel if I wait a week too much could happen and I'd lose my shot. Any input would be wonderful.
Thx for listening to this long and boring story.
CHAT