Not sure if this is the right area for this but I cant post in relationships section since I do not have enough posts.

So I have had some interesting experiences when it comes to the ladies but this one has me fucked up and wondering. So heres the situation-

Things were good with this gorgeous 10 I met (we totally clicked) but the situation is complex because I know so much about her personal issues and had kind of become the "emotional" pad for this girl In that she told me everything.... The problem was I had a special connection with this girl because not only was she gorgeous but she was a girl I didnt need to impress and who liked me for me. A girl who I could be myself around and who up until now seemed like potential long term relationship material

Because of the internet being so open i am leaving most of the story out so i am hoping experienced pua's or people who may have had a situation that had some similar qualities will get it. Nor will I be revealing too much more personal stuff about this situation.

We were in a short relationship if you can call it that and the problem is she just wants to be really good friends as explained in her breakup text (why i was broken up over text baffles me especially with this girl). Obviously that is not what I want nor ever wanted.

Bascially we had an amazing date like usual and then I get home and retrieve my texts and see the breakup text. Not only was I upset because I invested alot into this girl but I was thinking about the things that had been said on the date especially about this other guy she told me about. I had thought we were strong enough relationship wise so I didnt have to worry about other guys (and trust me this girl gets so much attention it is ridiculous) but I guess I was dead wrong.

Keep in mind this girl has some very shady connections and also keep in mind that this girl was very secretive but told me everything about her. Attraction wise there was no indication that things were going rotten anytime soon which Is why im upset since I feel blindsided. One other thing is this girl has alot of emotional things going on in her life and alot of personal issues/things going on so its not exactly a stable time in her life.

I am speculating over ideas she dumped me because she was afraid of another guy who she currently is in a long distance relationship with looking me up if you know what I mean. Until this last date I never even knew about this guy. The problem is the guy is shady and the girl has some shady connections as well. I am disgusted she told him she was seeing someone over here (me) when he asked her if she was since he had been with other girls(yea I know right its ok for him to be around other girls but she gets around a guy and then its a dealbreaker haha)

Originally I had blindly overlooked this and many other things because I was really into this girl but the more I think about it the more I actually realize that It was possibly dangerous to be around this girl...

I also think its weird that though we were super trusting and open with each other that this individual in her life was never brought up.

Anyway just wondering if anybody has had a similar situation where theyve met a gorgoues girl who has shady connections and dumps them over possible danger/ exposure. The entire situation is just very strange and the fact that I met a girl who had these type of experiences/connections in her life was pretty interesting.

The only problem being this would seem to indicate she loves this long distance guy (which I asked her before I left her that date and she didnt give too straight of an answer). Then I mention our next date (we had big dinner plans) before we leave and she was totally cute/cool-no clues that I was going to be dumped.

Not to mention though that this breakup hit me out of nowhere and I am not even sure if this guy is the reason I was dumped-totally speculating. At this point I am obviously going to have to eat crap and move on but It fucking sucks and emotionally I put it all out there for this girl and then have to deal with this shit sucks.

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be cool, but never try to be cool
you were no longer leading the relationship, so that means that she had to be the man.. and what woman wants to be the man in a relationship? NONE, that's who
being a man in a relationship is a tough job.. the beautiful woman you thought needed comforting about her problems really needed you to STOP TALKING ABOUT HER PROBLEMS and tell her 'I'm here.. you'll be safe, baby' then put a warm hand on her back and end all talk about her problems right then and there!
then, talk about anything fun and exciting in your lives that doesn't involve negativity or stressful or dramatic feelings
remember, women can only be attracted when they are relaxed/safe
it may sound weird, but when you try often to console a woman through tough times, she will always associate those tough times and those BAD FEELINGS with YOU!!
it's not your fault directly, but you weren't leading the relationship so you indirectly allowed her "bad mood or problems" to lead the relationship.. which is why it's over

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