Over the past month i have worked very hard using PUA techniques to build a strong emotional connection with a girl who is in another state. This mainly consisted of messenger, and text-talk, due to the fact that we are both occupied at work during the day - at a computer. She had already planned on coming to town this weekend to see her friends, and decided to come in a night early to spend a night with me. She dropped a seemingly endless amount of IOI's which suggested that shit was gonna go down...

So she gets into town.. we're watching and snugglin close and literally right before i plan on beginning the make-out session - SHE FALLS ASLEEP.

YES, SHE FALLS ASLEEP RIGHT ON ME! LITERALLY ON TOP OF ME.

I spent the rest of the night glooming on the computer and complaining to my friends about this chick whom i wanted a month to meet that was now occupying my bed.

The next morning i was over it. I felt frustrated, and confused, and so i was pretty cold to her. It didn't seem to phase her, and she was still super-flirty with me like always.

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I NEED TO GET BETTER AT RECOGNIZING WHEN A SITUATION IS WORTH IT OR NOT. I can't tell if she is the kind of girl that flirts with everyone or she really wanted me - needless to say i didn't give a shit once she fell asleep.

So my question(s)...

Should i keep pursuing her? Is she a dead fish? When should i let go? What should i have done? Should i have punished her for falling asleep? Should i have tried again this morning? Bleh.. i was so confused by the situation that i just decided to give her the cold shoulder and i will probably continue to do so. If she does want me, I'm going to make her ass work for it now.

I just need general feedback because i feel like the night was a complete fucking waste.

Maybe she just got comfortable and so happened to fall asleep? Maybe it was just you waiting TOO LONG? I don't really think you can write her off just because of this. Instead of moaning you could've just slept aside her and made out in the morning. Give it another chance...you've put so much effort into this girl and you're going to walk away because of this?

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Optimistic?