Hi All,

Im having issues setting up a date with this girl I've met at the gym. In person when I bump into her shes super chatty ect.... tells me how she goes for walks near the gym and stuff I decided to try the yeah sounds good lets do it together. She said cool ill add you on Facebook i denied and grabbed her number instead....

Gave her a few days before I txt her so she started thinking why havnt I herd from him? Got replies rather quick and seemed all good.

Called her once and she had shit reception and it cut out (tonight). Got a message a bit after apologising that shes studying and has shit reception but will see me soon. I replied asking if shes v busy this week and if she wanted to work out a time to go for a walk up the mtn but am yet to get a reply....

Its weird in person I get wicked vibes but text and calls just aren;t giving me the same sort of feeling. What do you guys think?

What should I do? Add her on FB and try communicating with that? help me!

I'd let her initiate the next interaction. I have a rule where I don't ever send a message when I've not received a reply from a previous one.
By sending her another message, it shows that you:
1) are thinking about her too much without her having to do anything for it.
2) will give in to her too easily and give her attention
3) aren't busy enough living an awesome life as you're too busy texting her and getting no replies.

Wait a day, then add her on facebook, but don't initiate the conversation. When it eventually kick-starts up again then make her feel indebted to you, like "do you know how hurtful it was not hearing from you? I've had to see a psychiatrist...you're paying for that!", or something similarly playful. By making her feel like she 'owes' you, you're giving her the option to think of ways to make it up to you. And if she doesn't bite to that one, then you can simply suggest ways in which she can make it up to you; "we can go for that walk, that might help in curing some of the trauma you put me through?".

Hope it helps, keep me updated.

Good Luck!




phoenix;!

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