| Thanks Minsok and Deviated for chiming in.
Minsok, I do know that my game wasn't that solid when after she initiated
contact to meet with me right after the first date (the next morning
actually), I kinda let my guard down and I think my body language showed that.
You know, you go out one evening, and then out of nowhere the next morning
she calls and asks if I had time to go and meet her where she worked to do lunch.
So I think that kinda let's you think, well, she digs me. A few days later
we go out again, so now, at this point, I wasn't playing a game anymore, and as I
started to like her more, somehow she sensed that or something.
Having said that, now we know that she was seeing other people, so that's a factor
that was at play too.
I don't think there's anything I can do at this point since she was so agressive and
dry towards me in the end. She basically wants to cut me out of her life completely.
I wouldn't mind having her as a friend, but it's very obvious she does, especially
after the sudden Facebook incident.
I think I'm gonna do what Deviated suggested at the moment, which is just to say nothing at all.
And yes, Deviated, I still do want her to know about my life, and that she missed out on a good man, but she probably doesn't give a damn at this point.
I was in terrible shape the last couple of days, but for some reason I woke up this
morning feeling much more positive. Again, writing about it, and getting advice from you guys did help. I do miss her, and I feel sad, but today was a good day regardless.
I've a lot to learn about dating, that's for sure.
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