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PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 12:34 pm 
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I meant all girls in the world, but your pack is a good start ;)
How often haven't we all heard 'this girl makes me forget about my game, I suck when I am close to her, even though I want her so badly'? The girl you really want only comes when you've already had the rest of the world. Instead, focus on getting some other chicks. You can easily have 4 or 5 girls who you're gaming at a time.
It's what I do too. I game chicks, I learn from my mistakes, I try to correct myself, all for this higher purpose: This one girl, whom I will see again this summer. My 10.
My problem isn't getting the HB6 and 7s, I'm a natural around them, but the more pretty girls are the ones that were out of my league. Nowadays I know how to get them, but the low amount of hot girls gameable in my area keeps me back.

Keep in mind that it might be (and feel) strange if you suddenly start acting 'so cool' around these women. They might notice your incongruent if you tell them you can't come. It is something that has to progress slowly, but noticeable. Get some other friends at your university, have fun with them too instead of being 24/7 around your pack (like zendelo says).

Note on the boyfriend-thing: You can build as much sexual tension as you'd like, if you don't escalate, nothing happened. You can game the 3 girls, get them attracted, touch them everywhere (okay, not everywhere, but you get what I mean), but as long as you don't kiss them, the boyfriend-factor can't get you in trouble. Most of the times the girl will tell you when too stop if she has a BF.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 12:39 pm 
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Very good,
I think im getting the point, now to start gaming :D .
Tonight will be the start of the whole process then.
Kinda scared :o . But I think that's a good thing :wink: .
Here we go!


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:02 am 
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Ok so,
tonight was the big party at our university.
I was flirting with some random chicks and I was ignoring my target a lill' bit.
I think it worked, becouse at the end of the evening she was kinda pissed/upset.
So first step made :D .
Oh jea my target and the girl that is still single of the pack, said we need gum becouse we still need to kiss some one tonight. I gave them gum, but i didn't do anything, becouse I thought this isn't the right night. Becouse i left her a bit upset, and i know she won't kiss anyone tonight.
So what you guys think, I played it well?
BTW she didn't use me as a distraction from other guy strying to hit on her this time, and it happend 5 times that night so thats a good sign right?
Cya


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 9:09 am 
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Lol don't overdo it ;)
Jealousy is a powerful emotion, and a dangerous one. If you go too far, she will blow you out. Lead her through a wide range of emotions (ie. make it up with her, apologize) to get the girl.

If she's not using you as a distraction, but she is getting hit on, then she might be trying to get you jealous. Don't push it, as she might hook up with some other guy just to piss you off.

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OK dank je wel!
Ik begrijp alleen niet helemaal wat je bedoelt, met laat haar veel emoties zien.
Ik begrijp wel dat ik het dus nu rustig aan moet doen en haar een beetje moet observeren. Ik zag net pas dat je een NL'er bent :D .

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Ok thanks!
I do not fully understand what you mean by showing her a wide variety of emotions.
I do understand that i have to take it easy and observe her. I just noticed that you were dutch too.

Later!


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 4:16 pm 
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I think he meant, that you must make her feel a lot of emotions. I don't really know bits his idea behind it.
I do know you must make her feel a lot of emotions within your stories, because then a conversation with you will be appealing.
And these emotions will be linked with you etc.

Anyway, I'm glad you noticed result already! Analyze her, because it's hard to find out when to go in and go for a k-close.

I would continue flirting with other girls, but don't freeze her out for 100%.
You must create jealousy, make her want you. Then give her bait, so she can try and win you over.

If she sees you flirting with others and she a little upset by it. She probably won't tell you she is upset about it. But you notice.

Then flirt with her, show her that you are in a good mood. And be flirtuous with her, she will bite and you will be able to lure her in eventually.

I can't explain you the balance between this, but I'm confident that you can feel this.
You need to feel when to give bait, and when to create distance and create jealousy. It's pushing & pulling which only you can feel.

When she asks you something it won't hurt to flake out, by saying you can't because you have (something awesome) to do. But I have confident in you, remember to let her life revolve around yours!

Keep me up to date brother!
Good luck,

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 07, 2010 5:57 pm 
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Yeah, I meant you have to make her feel lots of different emotions. The more feelings you give her, the more she will think about you. I can't fully explain it, but I've read something about it and I will post something about it in the future.
Push/pull indeed is very effective. In fact, it may just be the most effective technique of all.
Good luck and keep us up to date!

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Hi guys,
I know it's been a while, sorry for that :o .
Ok so, haven't spoken to her often this last month, becouse we were having a hard time at school. (exams) Witch unfortunately I didn't pass and she did :? . I will be seeing her 2 times during the summer, at 2 party's. But afther that i wont untill next year. But i think thats a good thing, creating some distance.(gaming other women)
Uhm so I haven't realy got the chance to apply your tactics :P(becouse not much contact with her) but i will try that more often when i see her.
So far, nothing lost :D
See ya!


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