This has worked so well and so reliably for me that I had to share it.
Hookah bars are popular enough these days that you can find one near-enough by in almost any city. I am convinced that these are one of the best places for an instant date of all time. Here's a short list of reasons why:
- Easy and low time commitment.
You don't need a reservation, and you have the potential to be in and out in an hour, but can still wind up hanging out all night. It's almost exactly the same as going for coffee as far logistics are concerned.
- "Special" environment.
Those places that are all Egyptian themed and shit are the best. They are tacky as hell but I'm beginning to believe that the environment is very much in your favor. If you're lounging on pillows and have Indian music videos playing in the background, there is very little "normal life" about this. I may be wrong, but I'm pretty sure this makes it easier to other "out of the ordinary things." Like going home with you.
- "Shotgunning" as a kino routine.
Shotgunning is where you take a nice drag, lock lips with her, and breath out while she breathes in. Also called "the kiss of death" and intimate as hell. If you're in a group, get it started without involving her. Bring it up and how fun it is and either do it with someone else or just suggest that two other people in the group try it. Soon everyone's having fun with it and of course she wants in. Make sure that you tell her exactly how to place her lips. It really doesn't matter, just establishes you as the one in control. Also make sure to place a hand on the back of her neck. This it's a very sensual zone and you have the perfect excuse, you're just making sure her head's in the right position for everything to work.
I'd recommend not kissing her the first time. Basically, either she's ready for it at this point or not. If she is, you're just making her want it more by denying it, if she's not, touching your lips without doing anything more makes her feel hella safe. After that first one... You can almost always make it a kiss whenever you feel like. I like to either make it an innocent shotgun that turns into a lingering tug on the lips as it ends, or keep the lips still and add a little tongue (this is great because the other people can't tell anything's going on and now you and her have a dirty little secret.

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Hope this is useful to you guys. Happy sarging!