This one girl I have run into bars quite frequently lately, is constantly trying to find ways to playfully tease me. It doesn't bother me in any way I laugh and kind of poke fun of her back. Lately her teasing has become more kino-oriented, like she gave me a nipple twister, playfully bump me, and pinching me in the stomach, which again I don't mind, I find it funny.

Now my question, are these signs showing that she is into me or just another trip down the friend zone. Like we always have a great laugh talking with eachother but I feel that we never even have had a serious conversation its always fun and games.

And this is a problem?
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Uh, duh.
Why haven't you fucked her yet?
Don't think, do.

You're thinking. Don't think.

You have no problem whatsoever. Before the window closes, escalate, eject, bounce, and FUCK.

There.

man i'd fuck her in a heartbeat, sounds like she's a freak in the sheets too

haha nice one guys ^
OT: How many IOIs do you need before you fuck a girl? A hundred, just to make it special? And if you totally don't know the meaning behind it...do some sexual escalation kino. Unless you want to give her a nipple twister back?

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I do tend to overthink things, however the thing that had me second guessing this is that the girl kinda has a reputation to be a flirt/cocktease.

Who cares about her reputation. If she's such a flirt she's probably horny in the first place. Try to not think about what is going to happen for a second and go with the moment. If she's going to be a bitch about you escalating with her to a more sexual level, just ignore her for a little while. But I doubt that would happen

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O go she wants you so DO HER girls tease guys they really like.

Hell ya take a shot and isolate ASAP. If she is a cock tease just do the LMR push-pull, take away, freeze out stuff. It seems like you can take a chance and be more aggresive with your sexual advances because of the high level of touch already going on.

The other route you can go is get offended by her fondeling you and work it that way. Hey, I'm not a piece of meat! I have feeling you know! kind of stuff. The more I think about it you might want to play it this way if she is normally a tease. You have to be the guy who is the exception. Act the opposite of what she is used to. Just think about it.

If you let it continue as is without escalating she is making you her bitch -and worse, in front of other possible targets, lowering your value. If this becomes the case you are letting a girl bully you, what kind of man are you?

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Well I am probably going to run into her friday night again so I will update how it goes. One question though, what would be a good way to isolate her when the conversation is far from serious, in other words how can I make the conversation more serious to isolate her from her friends.

What is the situation you are going to be in? Bar, club, house party, etc?

This is where planning comes into play. Maybe mention you are going to do and afterparty at your place to finish off the night. Or tell her you are feeling tired of the scene and want to bounce to grab food (plan a close spot ahead of time you "just heard about"), another bar or back to your place (or hers if its closer) to chill.

If you don't think a bounce will work you can also just try to get her away from her friend group for a bit. Say you want some company at the bar while you order drinks. You want to go sit down (in a more secluded corner) so you can talk with her about something on your mind. You want to do a walk around the bar to see who all is there and you want a partner in crime. This can lead into kino escalation and one of the comfort building routines pretty easily. Look up some comfort building routines and you should get the general idea.

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Sorry I forgot to mention, I will most likely see her at this bar/club (kind of a hybrid) this friday cause she has been every time I have so I am assuming she will be there again. Bringing her to the bar is a good idea, but I dont want her to think I am going to buy her a drink. I was thinking of just getting her to come dance but the problem is it is hard to talk while dancing. This brings to mind something she did to me the other night, I was talking to a friend and she came over to me and started doing a dance right in front of me (not grinding also was not near the dance floor). I put my hand on her shoulder and was about to say something to her but she kind of walked away right after I had the chance to say something. I was confused what to do in this scenario but I feel like it was a chance in me to isolate her. Ideas?

If she wants to dance, just dance with her. Not alot of guys actually dance so you can even get an advantage out of it. It also raises your value towards other girls and you can use those to rais value with her. I've had the same problem before; you dance with a girl but somehow you don't know what to do so you just start talking to her. BUZZ wrong answer! Just dance for a bit and when the song ends or whatever you can give her a que that you're going to sit down for a bit and you can invite her over. If she doesn't come, her loss, just try again later. Don't sit down for to long if she's not going to join you though.

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