Hey guys i have this one target among others but i feel this girl has something special that no other targets have and i want to settle with her but the problem is, she has a boyfriend... the good part is that she never told me about her boyfriend and i kino and show intimacy all the time. she seems interested in me as well... i heard that her boyfriend is a major fag who is skinny slipknot fan kid with a long hair.... i can def. compete with that especially i have all the alpha characteristics... HOW DO I ELIMINATE THE BOYFRIEND WITHOUT KICKING HIS ASS???? THATS ALL I NEED TO DO, I GOT REST OF THE GAME BUT I JUST NEED THE BOYFRIEND OUT SO I CAN SETTLE WITH HER!!!

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Punkstar,

I actually prefer a gal with a bf. Of my 127 notches, i'd say 1/3 of them had a boyfriend. It usually means it known mutually that this is purely sexual and no strings are attached. In your situation you want her to ditch the guy for you.

if she didn't tell you she has a bf its because she didn't want to scare you away. shes unhappy with her current situation and needs a change. You can slam dunk this by full-closing with the Alpha Male chasing off the wimpy boyfriend.

Normally i'd say "You don't necessarily need to devalue the boyfriend, because if she was totally happy she wouldn't be this far with you. Just show her your the AM and closing will follow." But your situation is a little different in the sense that there are two ways to look at it.

1. You don't care that she'll cheat on her bf with you (showing shes a dishonest slut)

2. You do care and don't want to hook up with her til after they have separated.

If situation 1 is your choice: Whats stopping her from doing the same thing in a month when shes bored with you? if i were in your shoes, i'd keep her around as a fuck buddy but develop no emotional attachment. Don't put urself out there to get hurt by some loose girl. To get rid of the boyfriend, have sex with her(and let her finish first).

If you picked 2, then your going to have to go on some dates (3-5 depending on ur skill) If you notice IOI's increasing your on the right track. Have you kiss-closed her yet? If no, then do it. After, have a talk with her about her current situation. Use anchoring to install a negative image about him. either with touching or a phrase. NLP is the best way, i've found, to ditch the boyfriend. If you are plateauing, just catch and release.

I personally don't date if i don't have to so this really isn't my field. If anyone can elaborate please do.

Pop

Kharma!!!!!

Or she thinks you're gay!
But as Pop42 said:
If she cheats on her boyfriend with you, would you still settle with her? KNOWING that she cheat right infront of your eyes?!
And how did you knew about her boyfriend if she never told you?
She didn't told you probably because you never asked!
It doesn't neccesarily mean she's unhappy with him.
She would've told you if you were to get very intimate like trying to kiss her or actually kissed her.
I've been on several cases, that I actually got a day 2 with a girl, and thats when the boyfriend situation comes.

Just be a man.

Have fun with her. Escalate her to the line where she has to make a choice.
Then you make it for her. Control the frame!
Tell her to go back to her boyfriend and have a little talk.
You dont share your woman with someone else.
And if she breakes up with her current BF dont just stand there with open arms.
Tell her some bs about you not sleeping with chicks until the 3rd date.
Make yourself the price.

But if you arnt looking for LTR.
Just do what you feel you gotta do.
Have some sex and let it go.

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I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

1.) I found out from her friend whose more close with me than her,
2.) i own her social circle
3.) she wants to escalate and i could tell by body language

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Then escalate. If she denies you, she won't cheat on her guy, if she opens, she's a slut. Either way you're screwed

LOL. The last reply made me laugh.
Seriously.. How the hell does people know theese things?
Never met the girl, not much info in the post.
Still YOU KNOW he's screwed. And you know she's a slut.

Let say you are in a LTR. You meet another girls and you decide to make a move.
Are you a slut? Are you going to cheat on your new GF?
Is your relationship screwed just because you had one before?

NO. NO and NO.
We dont know.
Anything could happen.

Labeling girls as sluts in case they fall for a sweet PU goes against the whole
idea of finding quality women. Then there are no good girls out there.

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

Adilinar wrote:
punkstar wrote: I like how we`re going into post-mondernist philosophy here haha

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Been there, done that.
My suggestion is to gauge the BF:

-If he's a good guy, STAY AWAY.
-If he's a douchebag, DON'T STOP
Good man.
Always remember: NEVER mention the BF. Never. It kills the vibe, and it adds a reverse kill vibe. Think "Social Kamikaze Pilot"
I'll tell you why she likes him: He's interesting, most likely a douchebag, and knows how to hit her heart. Of course, she's probably disgusted at his slipknot bullshit, but women...they'll date an obese dude if he makes her happy.
1)Do not talk about the boyfriend, EVER.
2)Keep her in secret
3)Stop trying to be "alpha" and be yourself.

I will also suggest not being angry. I was angry, but I realized my anger is rooted in a non-existent past. Right now is what matters, and right now, she's being fucked into orgasm by Mr.Slipknot.

Plot your course, but stay in line with it; do not deviate.
God will kill you if you do.