how do i get a girl to be engaged in a conversation?
i kinda 'forced' her number out.. thats what my friend told me..
maybe i'm thinking too much.. but how can i salvage this situation?
my friend told me that she wasn't into me but she was dancing and holding my hands and all..
should i assume attraction and go on to a day two?
how can i increase attraction between us?

Here are some quick ways..

1) Have fun with the convosation play games.. ie "guess in 3 tries what I do for a living".

2) Have interesting topics bring up and interested fact, or something that happened to you that was interesting...

3) Listen, alot of the time people miss good talking points that there interested in because they simply don't listen

4) Have a dominance of convosation with great eye contact, and demand her attention... if she start looking off or want to change the subject just dominate her..

she doesnt reply my text.. hmm..
what shld i do?
i asked her if she wanted to catch iron man 2 together as i have two tickets... she didnt reply me..

Dude, wayyy too much pressure on her if you setting up a private date for a day 2, specially if the number was a bit forced.

You may have lost this one already with a lack of connection on the initial meet if she said it was forced. If you want to try and save something from this i'd suggest waiting a couple of days and just send her something interesting in a text to build some rapport. Something along the lines of "Hey trouble! i've had such a crazy awesome day today, there was this smurf and a goat having a fight and the smurf won! how's your day been?"

okay okay, so maybe you'd want to swap the smurf fight for something else interesting thats more realistic, but you get the idea.