Hey Im pretty AFC but ive been reading about PUA and all for a while now and I need some help with this HB9.
On wednesday, we were both talking alot, she was sitting on my lap and we were going for piggy back rides, thumb wars, etc. Pretty much everything, like she was attracted as hell to me.
This is where i think i fucked up, yesterday we went to chill downtown, all of ours friends and her and to be honest, my mid game sucks. I can attract girls but i cant make conversation, i always have to rely on old jokes or nicknames. So I couldnt think of anything to say, we were all standing in a circle of friends and i was beside her and i couldnt think of shit to say. However, later at night, near the middle, we started just flirting like crazy again and piggy back rides and things went back to how they were on wednesday. I took the subway with her and gave her a kiss on the head before i got off. I told her to get my number from her friend n text me and she did, but the texts seem like as if she lost alot of attraction. =/
I think i fucked up cause i was incongruent with her, seemed anti-social for a bit, wasnt very outgoing.

Is there any way i can save this or spark attraction again? As of now were just talking on text.

Thanks a bunch guys!

Don't text back for a few days...don't reply on any of her text messages. Make sure u make up a (good) reason for this.

Than after 2/3/4 days you start replying on the last one with your reason why you didn't return her texts.

You have to see for yourself how many days would be the best. Better to long that too short. I would use something that you forgot your phone at your parents home or something in that direction.

The point of doing this is that she will go ask herself: "hey...why doesn't he answer me anymore? did i say something wrong? did he lose interest? maybe he has another girl?"

Anyways that is something that girls cant stand. So if she is interested it will makes her thinking about you even more and it will drive her crazy.

And if you're on that point, your back in control of the situation.

Than just keep it easy and light in your texts. And make a new date on a short period. Just something light like buying a icecream or getting a drink.

Than on that date, make a list of 10 subjects that you think she/girls would like to talk about or be interested in. Learn them till they are in your head.
But not use them like canned material, but as a backup. Just when the conversation is running out, and you can't think about something than u just use one of the subjects of your "list".

This will give you more confidence and keeps the conversation running.

Than don't make the date too long and kiss her in the end. (make sure you build up enough attraction before the kiss, so that she can feel whats coming)

Good luck and sorry for my bad english