Last few weeks i've approached alot of girls but when i'm talking to them i'm constantly thinking: "okay, not lean in to her"

But in a conversation in for example a club when you don't hear each other very good it's more handy to speak a little closer to her. And therefore you have to lean in a little bit.

But i now i am not sure or this is okay or not?

And now i am stuck in the middle, which creates a really stiff/static looking body language because i am always leaning back.

Is this a good thing or is leaning in a little bit not that bad?

(sorry for my bad English )

I lean in when I am genuinely interested in what a person is saying and listening to them. When I'm bored I usually just eject for a time then come back and see if conversation gets any better, or I turn my attention to someone else in the group.

In a noisy situation, leaning in is better than missing chunks of whats being said since you want to create a solid flow of communication.

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ok, tnx for your opinion