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| Screwfish | PostPosted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 10:01 am | |
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Posts: 11 | | OK, I have no problems with approach anxiety - I can talk to women and make them laugh and listen to me with ease.
My problem is that I have a tendency to stumble when it comes to actually asking them out, you know, even if it's just to grab a coffee/drinks. (I don't actually drink coffee, but I doubt that's the reason). When I have my wingman this isn't such a problem, but when on campus I tend to find myself alone a lot and lost as to what to do once I get past the first barrier.
Any tips?
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| bits | PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 7:54 pm | |
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Location: The Netherlands | | You're putting way to much weight on your shoulders.
You're just gonna drink coffee together and chat a little bit, it's not like you're going to marry or something.
I suppose you have some female friends. Have you ever asked them to come sit with you, not trying to game them? You probably didn't think much of it, since you didn't had any objective apart from just wanna hang out. Try to recall that feeling when you are setting up a day2.
Try to see your day2 as a casual meeting, not as a real date.
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 8:09 pm | |
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Location: London, UK | | I agree bits. Ask if the girl is free for a quick drink sometime, if you don't like coffee, drink tea, if you don't like tea, have hot chocolate haha.
Relax, ease yourself, and talk to her as you normally would.
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| TheTruthPUA | PostPosted: Fri Apr 16, 2010 5:04 am | |
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Posts: 245 | | My advice is u need to slow it down... when u ask take a pause... then ask in a nice slow pace... another thing is if u don't like coffee try something more fun like a smoothie trust me alot of girls go for it, and think its alot better and different. even that maybe even go for ice cream or a yougart. by going for the coffee you are lower your value from the beginning believe it or not because ur forcing yourself to drink something u don't like...
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