Hey guys...

I'm new to the forum, and I've found the stickies on the other sections extremely valuable, but this Mid Game section seems to be a bit tough to get started with.

The mid game and general "fluffing" is something I am quite apprehensive about. The clever openers and other stuff are great, but I need some real comprehensive guidance on how to build general rapport after that.

a good way to build rapport is NLP if you know how to use it(so i hear)

but i good way i know is to ask a ? than agree with her answer(as well as follow up)

example:
u:which 1 of your parents do you like better?
her: my mom
u:why?
her: because we can talk about anything and shes really fun
u: me too, one time i almost got this girl pregnant and had to ask my mom for help buying morning-after pills(true story btw ) and she way really understanding about it.

(in short)you have to try to make her feel like you understand where she's coming from.

oh and DO NOT INTERVIEW HER!!! its a conversation not a Job interview dont ask 1000 questions.

but 21 questions is a good way to learn more about each other
hope it helps

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Thanks buddy!!

Yeah I've been reading Introducing NLP... It is very interesting, although a lot to take in!