Hey everyone, I am new to the game, I saw a few episodes of Mysterys show, and thats how I found out the world of PUA, but I never gave it any time of day until my friend showed me the David D Advanced series. Then I was hooked. I watched the whole series, bought (and am still currently reading) NLP The New Tech of Achievement, The Art of Speedreading People, The Game, Influence, and a few others that I am missing. Ill give you a little bit of my history.
In highschool, I was always put into the friend zone with the girls. It sucked, but I was a late bloomer. I got to college, and finally found a girl drunk enough to have sex with me. (She was on top... im pretty sure i had her consent.) Went on a dryspell for a while after that. I could get numbers, but wouldnt know what to do with them. I would text or whatever, but I dont think I made a big enough impression. Then I got kicked out of school for selling coke. Moved away for a while, now back in Chicago burbs working as a bus boy at a posh restaurant.

Enough of that, like I said, I am a busser at a cool restaurant and I am surrounded by HB7,8,9. Its the best and worst thing that could happen. I want to fuck them all, but there are two problems I see occurring . Since its just a restaurant, its not gigantic, and all the girls talk, and all the girls know eachother. We're guys; we can only speculate what they are giggling about in their witches circles we so often see them forming in clubs, bars, and other public scenes.
Ive been working there for about a month and a half, and right from the beginning I started to flirt with the bartender. she has a bubbly personality, my age (22), and after she lent me her chapsitk i started calling her 'LipGloss.' She said "Dont you dare call me that" so thats exactly what i called her for the next few times we worked together. I didnt want to get annoying so i called her by her real name from then on. She ended up having a BF that worked that, and hes a legit dude, so I dont want to create any bad blood, so I backed off. (It kinda backfired becuase now its even easier to flirt with her knowing that she has a boyfriend)
The next girl im going to discuss is the hottest girl there. Def, a 9 and maybe in a few years a 10. She is a quieter type of girl and really sweet. The first shift I worked with her, I was waiting for food at the window (for those of you not familiar with restaurant lingo the "window" is the spot where the food comes from the kitchen to the dining area.) I noticed that she had a ring on her left hand ring finger (where a wedding band would go). it went kinda like this:
me - how old are you?
HB9 - 21....? (she answered curiously)
me - And you're MARRIED?!
HB9 - What?! No! (laughing)
me - well you have a ring on your finger. kinda mixed signals.
HB9 - hahahah...
Then i just left and carried on with my work. My next encounter with her was on St. Pattys day, I was working as a barback and she just came in to drink at the bar. It was super busy the whole night so I just smiled and said hi. Then at the end of the night she was helping me get dirty beer glasses off the tables and whatnot and i told her to 'get out of here and drink and to let me do my job..' She continued to help me and it was awesome. The restaurant had closed and it was just employees in the restaurant. I was still closing down the bar, and all the others were drinking and whatnot. HB9 was sitting at the bar, not drinking, just chillin and shit. All of the guys were just surrounding her like AFCs. they were just showering her with attention. Fast forward to the next time we work together. She is standing by the busser station and so i go over to say hello. We start to talk and i bring up St Pattys day and I said that she was quite the popular one with the guys. It went kinda like this i think...

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Me:So St. Patty's was pretty crazy huh? I remember at the end of the night you had a mob around you and at one point you had the pantry cook in your lap
HB - omg, are you serious? I dont remember anything!
me - no, you were sitting there doing nothing, and you had a whole bunch of guys around you.
(She then got a little upset)
HB - Well Greg (our general manager) said something to me today about me "gettin all the guys on St Pattys." Then our other manager was talking behind my back saying i was a slut and an alcoholic. Thats crazy, my mom makes fun of me because I never know when guys are hitting on me. (note this and comment plz.. WTF does this mean?)
me - being pretty, its a gift and a curse. (trying to make a joke, but she just kinda grinned and went on)
HB - its just BS, I dont ask for stuff like this.
[Then she told me about how this guy that she liked was dragging his feet. I didnt really comment on this]
Then, later that shift in the kitchen, i had grabbed a cookie from our bakery and she was also back in the kitchen, i said " would it make you feel better if you had a bite of my cookie" i held the cookie and she took a bit of it outta my hand and looked at me with big starry eyes. I then said "GEEZE! take a bigger bite!" She giggled and said "well i have a big mouth."
Thats where I am with her. Id also like to note that I may be coming down with some oneitus with this girl.

I have two other girls I have to tell you all about however I think there is enough material here for discussion. I am interested to hear some feed back. What do you all think of working game in such a small work environment? I have to go to work now but plz plz plz let me hear some feedback. PEACE

EEz-B

sounds like you're in man. If you haven't left out any details, I'd probably ask her to tag along some night with some other people or a non-date activity like coffee. Sounds like she has a commitment who is dragging his feat so umm... yeah. Non-dates are harmless Be prepared to run into talk of this other guy. If and WHEN it comes up, I'd stick to the "we won't do anything that we don't want to" line. Not sure where I read it but I have had good success getting apprehensive girls back to my house with it. It lets them hold onto a bit of their power, but plants the "we" subtly into their heads. They'll feel like your decisions are theirs. Build comfort with this type of girl, as she might see herself as a serial monogamist, wearing a "promise" (aka bullshit) ring from an insecure guy.

P.S. She gets drunk and likes attention. I wouldn't put her in a place to do this until after I slept with her the first time.

yo, just got off a shift with HB9 and asked her if she wanted to get coffee when she got out of work and she said sure. she said she had to go home for family shit but that she'd be down. my sister came to town for easter so i called her and i asked for a raincheck and she agreed, we are working together tomorrow and we decided to do it after our shift.

any suggestions for convo? dos and donts?