ive got a girl coming round to my house on saturday, i havent kissed her yet. She seems reluctant to come, almost as if she has nothing better to do. I managed to flip it around so she is waiting on me to txt her to confirm her coming round to mine.

Im well out of sync because normally i go round to the girls house and generally ive kissed them well before hand, What do you reckon cancel or get her round. Once she is round how the fuk do i build up to kissing her and maybe gettin a cheeky blowie , Help People!

btw i really want to fuk this one!!!!

You havent built enough attraction and comfort yet in my opinion or she wouldnt be reluctant to come.

I think you need to play it cool and just get her more interested!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

OK .. you already met , opened , dialoged , and now she is coming to your pad ... good job man !

So now you really only need to play this part out

How to fuck a girl ..

First .. have fun with her ... play a few fun games .. like real games or card games or whatever .... get her to smile and laugh and do some tickling but DONT get serious or a serious face unless it's part of a game

Second .. tease the hell out of her and accuse her of being too sexual and you are not affected by that at all ... well not much anyway ... untill she does that of course ... but no , not now (I'm teasing) jump around on topics and dont let any judgement calls stick to you. Ignore them completely.

Third .. get her to put herself in a compromising position .. "I need you to do something .. here stand over here and and reach out there .. goooooood ... here I will just hold on to you so you dont fall (kino)

Fourth ... if she is game for all this so far .. Put your hand in the middle of her back and push .. if she bends over pull her skivies down just far enough to smell her cootchie and pull you cock out ... put it right on the sweet spot and push ..

and NO I am not kidding ...

You dont have to ask her anything or give her anything or agree to anything ... just get her in position and IF she doesnt squawk ... just fuck her !!

Have Fun
MK

Also that routine would not work in this case. This girl doesn't sound comfertable around you, sticking her cock in her without her even seeing just sounds like a recipie for a rape law suit.


-V.A

With all due respect ... this sequence (or 'routine' as you call it) ... WORKS ! One has to have the balls to pull it off and confidence is one of the prime ingredients of seduction but in the context of a case by case basis if the woman IS going to his house then she is willing to take a risk ... so if you cant figure out what risk she is taking (or at least thinks she is taking) then of course you dont think it could work.

"losers try ... winners fuck the prom queen"
Sorry ... but I cant make heads or tails of this statement ... the only comfort .. comfert .. whatever .. that is important is going to be her comfort level right before sex ... she doesnt have to be comfortable all the time .... just at the right time.

MK

Yeah mankite, I've taken the liberty of voting you down. I've never done that before, but you've said maybe the stupidest combination of things I've ever heard since joining this site. Suppose a friend of yours asks you to pick up something while you're at his house. You do, and he then de-pants you, sniffs your butt, and tries to sodomize you. Sure, you'll bitch and he'll stop, but the damage is done, possibly to your colon. Sex without foreplay is a good way to ensure you never get repeat business. How many times have you tried out the retard advice you just gave? Never? What a shock.

Vote away ... I care not !


I get that reaction most often .. (yawn) .. and to that I say "None are so blind as those who WILL not see".


Not only have I done this many many times but I really believe that women enjoy it when a man takes the initiative and just goes for it. I told the same thing to a good friend and he tried it with great results ... I taught it to my nephew and now he thinks I'm the king .. Last night in a club I isolated a girl by saying "oh can you reach this .. no move down her a little farther .. a little farther .. alittle farther so your boyfriend cant see us and .. now reach up" .. she stopped ... looked back to see if her BF could see her ... and then she reached up and I didn't disappoint her .. it was innocent dryhumping fun and she enjoyed the hell out of it.

The only people who find it .. distasteful are those who live a futile struggle to learn something new but absolutely refuse to drop their old beliefs and behaviors. You have no doubt heard the term "self limiting beliefs" ... and in my opinion you're displaying them right here.

another great quote goes like "if you always do what you always did .. you will always get what you always got" .. maybe thats why your not gettin any ?


.. ? HIS HOUSE .. ? ... Not sure who you are hanging out with ... but in my neck of the woods guys dont do that to each other ? Maybe this misconception of yours is what has you locked inside your own mind and wont let you realize the truth ... women LOVE to be taken ...

I know ... throw another feminazi freakout fit if you want .. but its the truth.


Not only is this acceptable to most women ... if I convey to her that it might go down that way .. I see a marked improvement in their behavior ... they get more flirty ... better body language ... act more available .. and isolate easier.


another OLD SAYING ... "Dont knock it till you try it !!"


Have Fun
MK

I'm knocking it and I'm not gonna try it. Going in dry, without a condom is pretty much physically impossible. Your story is BS; I'm so sick of virgins giving sex advice. Are you talking about dry humping or sex? Do you even know the difference? But maybe there is some merit to your little fantasy, it is a widely known fact that women despise foreplay and wish there was less of it.

It's funny to me that you think you have to trick a girl into being able to penetrate her. I always have the luxury of putting the brakes on the foreplay so I can crack open a condom and put it on. Unlike you, I don't have to worry about her "squawking" and running for the door.

Double Yawn ..


So quinton ... how did it go ?

Actually he is absolutely correct. And you guys have no clue what you are talking about. His advice was not an exact recipe. it was full of suggestions to get a fun interaction going with a girl.

Listen man. She is already at your house. If she was at my house, she would have been f-closed on the first day. Listen to what he is saying. Get her to play some games have a good time. Be the king of your own god damn house. It's your house! It's your frame. Then do something stupid like he suggested to put her in position to keno escalate. If she has already been having fun with you, and you have been behaving according to how an alpha behaves in the comfort of his own home, then you kiss her back a bit, pull down her pants, and fuck the shit out of her.

Dry humping? what are you two even talking about. It's your house, you're the wizard! Handle that girl. She'll let you.

His advice is solid. Rate up.

I was following you until #4.... i think id amend that with push her over, land on top and share a laugh like it was an accident. Then stay there and lean in for a slow kiss and take it from there. Not really my style, but id think thatd work more with the whole playful/fun vibe.

A woman doesnt have to specifically tell you verbally she wants to have sex, but i dont think its ever a good idea to just go for it without any indications whatsoever......

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Don't get so caught up in PUA that you forget why you got into PUA in the first place.

some will ... some wont

Calibration is always a factor ....

Maybe .... if you consider what motivates ones own behavior ... the mindset is correct for the willingness to escalate ... and the commitment to the goals !!

but ...

you will have to be able to mentally "swim out to deeper waters" (so to speak) ... where shallow thinking doesn't work very well.

Have Fun
MK