I've been hanging out with this girl for a couple weeks now. Mostly going to parties together, living in a college town like Tempe, AZ that's totally the norm. I'm starting to like this problem is I recently looked at her facebook profile and it said she was "in a relationship". I'm always making sure I'm keeping her attraction spikes up, we even go as far as pretending we're married, and fake fighting just cuz the "make up sex is amazing" etc etc. We have never actually sexually esculated yet though... my question is how do I find out if she actually has a boyfriend without looking like a beta male and loosing attraction?

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Since the two of you pretend that you're married, maybe bringing it up jokingly at first, but make sure you get a straight answer.

"I saw your profile and you better be talking about me or this engagement is off."

To avoid coming off beta, be cool about it. If she tells you she is seeing someone else don't kill what you already have between the two of you. That would diminish attraction.

The "boyfriend" whether he's real or not, doesn't matter. If you've been hanging out with this girl for a couple of weeks and you have not seen any guys around then it's possible she is either putting out false info to keep away the flies or she's in a relationship with someone who's not around (long dist. relationship, etc). Either way that's good for you. Just continue to escalate. Never bring up the issue of a potential boyfriend. If there are no other man in the room with his penis in one of her orifices, assume she is single. Period.

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