Unanswered topics | Active topics |
New posts | Your posts
| Author | Message |
| dmacht | PostPosted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 4:22 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Feb 21, 2010 8:48 pm Posts: 6 | | Hey guys, first post.
That aside, I approached a 3 set that was sitting down. I had myself speaking at an angle as to make it seem i was leaving any moment. I used the jealous gilfriend opener, and then gave a false time constraint and rocked away. Shortly after I said there was one more question, and used the who lies more opener. The person who was controlling the talking on their side was not my target, but she was responding and I noticed I didn't look at all 3 of the girls, and just the one talking. The approach worked, and this was the transition into mid game.
I did notice 3 IOI's from one of her friends which i decided to be my target, she was quiet the whole time though. I just said i had to go and left, and their talker said ok bye.
Now I realized i did not throw any negs to the talker. Should I have said, introduce me to your friends, its polite... or you talk a lot, and then ask the other 2 if they have to put up with that all the time?
Any word on the situation would be good, anything i could of done to stay in it longer, as i was standing up should i of pulled up the 4th seat and sat with them?
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| ShadowNight | PostPosted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 2:31 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jan 27, 2009 3:20 pm Posts: 28 | | First of all, good job with the 3 set opener, and all the rocking back and forth etc.
I have had sets where one is the group leader and she does most of the talking while the others just sit/stand and observe. I usually just ask the friend who is talking why her friends are soo quite and it looks like you aren't having fun. Probably neg them slightly by saying "you need to smile a little... you're bringing the down the good vibe of this place". they usually open up a little after that and you can engage the entire group with fluff talk. Also, i didn't see u mention any kino. Once they open up, you should at least do a little kino... so they feel comfortable around you. then you can leave, and come back after a few minutes.
Hope this helps.
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| Philos714 | PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 6:32 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Tue Mar 02, 2010 3:46 am Posts: 17 AOL: philos714 Location: Buffalo Grove | | my opinion is that original negs are always best. so yea you can say something like you talk alot. (originality is best cuz they cant call you out as being a PUA) if you can come up with original material its ok but they might call you out on it.
yea you should have negged her alittle and bud... you cant just leave!! what, you think shell chase you, give you her number and strip naked waiting for you to fuck her right then and there????
in reality you should have stayed, talked to everyone and if the talketive one was the only one talking you dont have to neg her for tlaking so much, you should neg the rest for NOT talking! that way she wont feel bad for talking alot
after you and her are talking, if the other girls are non responsive, you can grab the girl aside and talk to her be like " its kind of hard to talk over these silent barriers, let go over there and continue this" if she goes you can talk alittle and close her, get her number or something. if you dont wanna get her away keep talking and have her talk for a long time, and then shift and number close. i would recommend to take her somewhere just the two of you so that its not awkward for her to give you her number.
anyway, hope i helped man!
-Philos _________________ No Tomorrow
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot post attachments in this forum
|