so i don't want to make this hella long but long story short..i asked a chick out to our highschool formal dance and i made out with her outside cuz we were tired and sweaty. she was enjoying it alot and so was i. ive been gaming her.

i didn't talk to her the day after ( and she didn't go to the after party) because i was hung over and felt like shit. now at school she looks at me but turns away and pretends she has better things to do like talk to her friend. i asked her out to lunch but she flaked twice and then never responded. She's being hella awkward.

My player friend said to straighten her out so i went and talked to her. kinda fucked around with her saying she's a good dancer but could work on it a little. i also said she i thought she was a sweetheart but that now changed cuz she was being mean to me( i did it playfully of course but idk if this was the right move).

Help guys, she's being awkward and i already made out with her. Her friend told my friend she didn't know why she made out with me because she likes somebody else. I say thats bullshit, she made out with me because she felt attraction but i just need help getting through the awkward phase and i don't think she'll try to make it any better.

I feel like since her rational mind started thinking, she was thinking about am i bf material, do i care about her or do i just want to hook up, and that type of shit. last 4 girls i hooked up with thought the same of me. Help would be appreciated.

It sounds like this girl get a little case of buyers remorse, a common thing that happens if enough comfort isn't build during courtship. I havn't actually ever read anyway to get around buyers remorse, maybe other than trying to befriend her and then build attraction again, but that's always a big no-no so it might not work.

Maybe some other people here have had more expirience with it.