This girl I have been randomly bumping into has become the main core of my thought processes. I can't focus on my studies and I am having trouble sleeping because I cant stop thinking of her. I really want to get into a relationship with this girl because she is a nice girl and absolutely stunning. However here is the thing I am terrible at taking things to the next level. i am not sure if she is into me but here is something that happened this weekend:

I ran into her yesterday at the bar/club and she gave me a hug as I was heading to the bathroom and she asked why I wasn't dancing and grabbed my hand to go dance. But good old me felt that it would be better to go use the washroom first so I told her that I had to go to the bathroom but that I would be right back. She gave me a weird look but I didnt really clue into it til after because I was really drunk. I had to wait in line for like 10 minutes to go to the bathroom. In the bathroom I was all excited and then suddenly realized that I might have just missed my opportunity and that was the very truth. I didnt see her the rest of the night and I kinda feel like she thought I didnt want to dance with her.

Well I guess my question is how can I take this relationship further. I know I effed up that night and its been bugging me like crazy. I dont really want to let her know how I feel upfront but I am wondering how I can make obvious hints that I am interested w/o it being excessive.??

i dont think you going to the bathroom fucked it up.. from my point of view, it showed her that she isnt the boss kind of.. you know what i mean?!
im currently stuck in the same thing.. hb10, smart, sexy as fuck.. i see her every second day, and i know (not think, i know) that she likes me, and i like her, but hey.. she already flaked on me twice, but she always set up alternative day.
what you have to do next time you bump into her is, tell her this:
"Listen, you probably like bumping into good looking guys... how you doing ?"
her: "im okay.. blabla"
me: "about last night at the club, there was a fight around the washroom area and one of my friends was involved so i really had to go help. but hey, do you feel like grabbing coffee sometime?"

boom done. the 'fight scene' shows that you are respectable to your friends and will always help. and she know whats up as soon as you start talking to her so you dont have to tell her all you IOIs.. BUT YOU HAVE TO LOOK FOR HER IOIs! MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHAT THEY ARE!!!

Ya I guess you can relate to my situation then.

I thought of that too though, that she might want it more since she couldnt get it the first time. I feel that I screwed myself over that night though because everything seemed to happen perfectly it all happened so fast lol

I was talking to her friend (without even knowing this girl was here) and she came over to me with a smile and she hugged me. Then asked why I wasn't dancing and yeah went from there.

The time I previously met her she gave me a little touch on my lower back, which I noticed. She also added me on facebook like 3 weeks ago.

The thing is, I do hide it but its still there, is my low self confidence. I feel like this girl is out of my league, even though a lot of girls do think I am good looking. When I first was running into this girl like 2 months ago, I thought she didn't even like me in general.

I guess also I just over-think things too much like I feel like she is not attracted to me for some reason. I never catch the IOI's til the conversation is over and I always attribute them to something else like maybe she is just being nice. But i don't know...

see the problem here is that you treat her as though she is god.. she isnt! she is a fucking girl that wants dick just like you want pussy.

in my situation, the girl is hb10, she broke up with her bf about 3-4 months ago because he treated her bad.. now it takes me way longer cuz she doesnt want this to happen again. i take it slow then.. but if nothing happens in the next 2 weeks, next.

btw. remember this, 8+ only! only 8+ are for you no matter how ugly you are. not getting them is a different story but try.. you got nothing to lose. after, you are the prize not her and she got to work for it.