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| blablae | PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 5:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:51 am Posts: 40 | | ive been pretty much a afc all my life. i could talk normally to girls in clas but nothing more then casual conversation. when doing anything "more" with girls i got very low confidence.
i was a very skinny guy before but last 7 months i started working out and gained like 12kgs. most pimples dissappered and i started wearing better clothes. and then like i started getting alot of looks from girls, at first i didnt notice it but it started happening so many times that i finally got convinced myself that i was somewhat attractive. it was kinda fucked up cuz i got like so many looks from girls i could only dream of.
so my first year in univercity and my change happened during this first year. and there was this one hot girl that i was looking it like when passing by and she looking at me. it happened many times but im was too dumb to figure out anything about it because ive never really got any attention like this before (especially never from a hot girl) or mby i was to dumb to notice and still was.
i was telling myself that this girl is interested in me but then there was this other voice telling me that im no way good enough for her. in other words i had really shitty confidense. but was time went i finally built up my confidense and beat that voice down. i stopped being a bitch and finally after so many looks i just said hi to her in the hallway after class. how you doing just some casual conversation about school - exams. i told her see u later. and i met her again another day in class sitting at the same table but with her friend who she was talking mostly too. i just exchanged a couple of words about the assignment with her nothing more-
last time i walked by her when she was sitting down in class in the chair and we looked at each other and then she looked down didnt even say hi. i figured i shouldve said hi but she did look down really fast.
if tldr just: this girl gave me alot of looks and i am very sure she is interested in me but i cant figure this shit out. is she just really nervous? i mean we looked at each other like 10 times before i walked up to her and talked to her and got to know her a bit. then when we sat at the same table she barely said anything to me. then last time when i walked by she just looked a bit at me and then looked down fast and didnt say hi.
im thinking either shes just really nervous. or i fucked up that i didnt ask her out the first time i talked to her?
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| suavaye` | PostPosted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:18 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 12, 2009 6:59 am Posts: 160 | | not much to go on IMO. but you should try and read her body language when she's not saying anything. is she playing with her hair or looking around the room like she's bored? and if she made i contact then broke it with you then she may not be interested.
overall keep doing what your doing and try not to think so much about what she's thinking _________________ que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE
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| venom0088 | PostPosted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:04 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Aug 08, 2009 9:23 pm Posts: 41 | | um talk to her, IF U MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH ANY FEMALE AND ITS POSITIVE, SAY HEY , WHATSUP/HOWS IT GOING. Jeez stop reading into it too much just talk to her. If she doesnt say HI, u say it. Obviously your interested in her, no reason to be anti social...
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| venom0088 | PostPosted: Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:12 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Aug 08, 2009 9:23 pm Posts: 41 | | oh and this isnt some romeo and juliet shit. You dont know her, shes one girl out of many. Just talk to her... shit i would talk to her even if her friends were there. come up with a funny remark, like " you guys know shes a real meany right?" point at her. Friends say " oh y is that?" You say Anything from " She stole my pen and never gave it back" to anything clever.. iono of the top of my head.
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