Alright, so I was at this party and met this chick. The chick totally "fell" for me, but I chickened out when she was leaving and didn't kiss her, she even stood there and just looked at me and I was so drunk and feeling self-concious that I didn't do anything.

Now this was before like three weeks ago, before I read The Game, Mystery Method so on so forth. I've got some idea how I should move forward but I don't want to blow this, I havn't got the case of one-itis (haha) or anything but I really like this chick and would like to know how to move forward.

She goes to my school and I've got her on my facebook but that's about it. Should I open her with a routine or should I go straight to comfort-building?

This is all pretty new to me and I just don't want to blow this hehe.

(I didn't know where to but this thread, I think i got it pretty right though)

Thanx in advance // Captain Marlowe

Approach her at school... face to face so she cant play games... open with "hey you forgot something last (saturday or watever) at the party" then lean in to tell her a secret and kiss her... then walk away like it never happened.

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Why ask for permission when you can ask for forgiveness?

Haha, seems cool but a bit ballsy. I think I'd get the kiss but she'll probably be pretty shocked.

Haha have confidence whether she likes it or not... AND we're gaming women here! wat do you have to lose?

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Why ask for permission when you can ask for forgiveness?

i really like this idea because im in the same situation... but wouldnt some form of comfort be needed before hand?

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I know that its sometimes hard to be confident about your actions. So i suggest something else. Go up to her, but instead of telling her a "secret" just say you had a great time and do some talking. Then after a few minutes say your friends are waiting but you like the conversation; so ask her if she has anything to do on a wednesday/thursday/fill in the blanks etc.
There are some good dating topics on this forum. Find some fun thing to do and while doing that build comfort. If she's having a good time then show some balls and go in for the kiss!

Good luck

anyone got good ideas for holding conversation at school? because of their friends wanting them to talk and social pressures on her (shes fairly new) so may not want to be labelled with a single guy.

what would be the best thing to do? short conversations?

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Alright, thanx a bunch. Will try something like that. I just need to get some confidence really, that's my biggest sticking point.

what are you people talking about?

Plz do not follow any mystery or the game. There is no secret formula out there, every girl is different, you have to "feel it" and "know" what you can do and cant do. You have to be able to read girl's body language, does it look like she wants it or is ready for a kiss?

I do not like the "under the radar" approach to girls. Either there is attraction there or there isnt. go direct, and then pull away and do your little games and what not, but make sure she knows you are attracted to her and you like her not as a friend or you end up one.