A little BG:

I hate texting. I never feel like my tone gets across I almost always call unless my service sucks or I'm in a really loud place.

The girl is hot. She's a 9 with very unique looks. Her personality is pretty decent too.

I'm pretty good looking and not bad with talking to women in live situations though my closing is a little shaky.

I've run into this girl a lot of times out at the bars in Scottsdale where I live. It's a very strange coincidence. Most of the time though it's just been in passing and I've been with a group of girls or big mixed group. Finally one time I was at a club (not a big club person) but it was one of my friends (girl's) bdays, so I went. Me and the HB9 talked about meeting up that night and she texted me saying she was there while I was already there coincidently so I found her and hung out for awhile. I really do regret not attempting a kiss-close and a few mistakes but overall pretty good.

Anyways I thought this text would make for an interesting discussion because there is so many different ways to go with it.

I call to arrange to meet and hang out, she responds via text the next day with this:

Hey sorry i didn't call u back I have finals this week! But I hope I didn't give u the wrong impression, I'm kind of in the process of getting back together with my ex


(haha, distinct possibility she disliked me enough to get back together with her ex)

Your response is: ________

her: Hey sorry i didn't call u back I have finals this week! But I hope I didn't give u the wrong impression, I'm kind of in the process of getting back together with my ex

you: Thats ok! I've been super busy - haven't had time to text. And I hear ya with the whole "getting back together with the ex" situation, I'm going through the exact same thing right now...



and see where it goes... If she questions you about your (bs) situation, she's probably interested. Don't text her 2 times in a row, ever (without a reply from her), and don't text back right away. wait at least several hours, or even a day for best results. It will keep the frame on your side. Keep us posted

-ub

At this time , you shud be the attractive friend .

who , will eventually break them up and steal the girl .

or

if they dont get back , you're still fucking attractive enough to have her over you .


Preselection game shud be gd here .

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