Hey guys, i'm new to the PUA community, i was wondering if someone could help me with a problem im having with this one girl.

I approached her a week ago and was able to get her number, but ever since then it has kind of gone south, i texted her a few times asking if she wanted to go out, but she was busy with other things, then completely by chance i ran into her at the club this past saturday, we danced for one song and then she left with her friends.

So i texted her that night and the next day with no response =/

this girl is highly attractive and completely my type, i feel like if i could get her on a date things could grow from there but, i was curious if i should even consider to keep trying or just delete and move on

thanks for any help guys

Go fuck ten other girls.

To the new guy, this may seem to be overused. You met a girl. You got her number. She flaked. Her not having time for a date is major IOD. So is leaving after one song.

This goes for everybody worrying about the one girl that flaked on you or rejected on you, and doesn't know what to do. YOU DON'T KNOW HER. Giving a girl you don't know priority over other women is a sign that you don't have other women.

Not having other women is not attractive.
Asking a girl out multiple times is a sign of desperation; which is also not attractive.
Trying to dance with a girl who rejected you is a sign of neediness; also not attractive.

This is textbook AFC thinking. If a girl shows she's not interested in you and she sees you at the club, say hi and go back with your friends to have a good time. Show her you don't need her. Show her you get other girls. Maybe then she'll come to you. If she doesn't come to you, you won't care because you will have other girls around you that want your time.

She doesn't know what she's missing. She sucks. <--that's the attitude you should have.

When you are starting out, you want to get every girl out there but that only comes with experience. I get flakes and I mess things up all the time. The best I can do is learn from it and move on. The behaviors you mentioned are what you need to fix, along with whatever you did to make yourself unnattractive in the first place. You may not have even gotten attraction.

It's awkward to reject someone on just a number. Most girls will give most guys her number after a few minutes of conversation. Keep sarging. Go fuck ten other girls.

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delete and move on .

come back later when you have hot girls on both your arms .

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