Basically i dont have a problem with opening a group or girl, but i have noticed that i am definitely the worlds best at attraction building. I can sometimes start the attraction early when i first meet the girl, but it is usually not long before it fades and i know i dont come off as needy. I can't seem to figure out what im doing wrong and it is extremely repetitive.

On my last situation i met this girl who works at a local store and we had a night out. We went to a small party and she got really drunk and a lil sick. Me and her crashed at my friends house and she was out instantly so i didnt feel comfortable tryin anything so we just slept together (no sex).

This past weekend me and her were supposed to meet at a party that i was having and she told me she would be there. However she never replied to the text i sent her and never showed (she said she "fell asleep at home"). So i said no big deal and invited her out the next night to have a few drinks. she said she would text me after work and let me know if she was coming however she never text or showed up. I saw her the next day and she told me she fell asleep again.

So now i am doing a freeze out and hoping it will change the way shes acting.

however its been 3 days and she hasn't tried to make contact.


So here is my questions:

Is the freeze out the appropriate thing to do with her? and if not what do i need to do?

Is this specific situation an attraction issue? and if not i still want attraction advice.plz.

Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated.

i would say forget about her unless she attempts to talk to you,, move on

i wouldn't say its an attraction issue

u may have moved to slow for her

you should have let her sleep alone and looked for someone else

I am in the same boat as you. I think if you're naturally exciting and social girls can get caught up in the moment. I am handsome and it's really easy to meet people. But the excitement for the girls seems to wear off real fast. I think they feel all weird after it because meeting a random stranger is an exciting fantasy, but embarrassing to tell their Mom.

Given your experience above my new approach to randoms is going to just be highly sexual, since the friendly approach seems to wear off quickly. I would rather close or just move on, rather than fuck around.

Girls dream about meeting a guy at work or school, any place that has a social context that makes it acceptable. You could try to take some classes or something. A structured class of any type is always packed with chicks. Yoga, wine tasting, continuing ed, etc. Even my marathon training group was 8 girls and three guys.

I am in the same boat as you. I think if you're naturally exciting and social girls can get caught up in the moment. I am handsome and it's really easy to meet people. But the excitement for the girls seems to wear off real fast. I think they feel all weird after it because meeting a random stranger is an exciting fantasy, but embarrassing to tell their Mom.

Given your experience above my new approach to randoms is going to just be highly sexual, since the friendly approach seems to wear off quickly. I would rather close or just move on, rather than fuck around.

Girls dream about meeting a guy at work or school, any place that has a social context that makes it acceptable. You could try to take some classes or something. A structured class of any type is always packed with chicks. Yoga, wine tasting, continuing ed, etc. Even my marathon training group was 8 girls and three guys.

I am in the same boat as you. I think if you're naturally exciting and social girls can get caught up in the moment. I am handsome and it's really easy to meet people. But the excitement for the girls seems to wear off real fast. I think they feel all weird after it because meeting a random stranger is an exciting fantasy, but embarrassing to tell their Mom.

Given your experience above my new approach to randoms is going to just be highly sexual, since the friendly approach seems to wear off quickly. I would rather close or just move on, rather than fuck around.

Girls dream about meeting a guy at work or school, any place that has a social context that makes it acceptable. You could try to take some classes or something. A structured class of any type is always packed with chicks. Yoga, wine tasting, continuing ed, etc. Even my marathon training group was 8 girls and three guys.

"Hey whats up, hows it going.. I needed your advice on something. Im going out with this girl today and I was wondering, can you match black shoes with brown belt?.. cus im in a kind of a dilemma here.."

This is the kind of a text you should send her.


But I think your problem is that you dont have a clue on what it means to have a woman and being her MAN.

after you move on with the ball busting and being funny it is time to LEAD. Its time to show a woman who is in charge. Let it be no mistake, it is YOU.

I think you lose your status arround her.. and she loses attraction.

Yes, you show up needy also.

If she says, that she is going to text you IF she is going to make it or not, that ussually means.. I found out that you are a needy, clingy wuss bag and I need you to go away from me FAST..

Keep your cocky and funny attitude for a little bit longer, but work on your inner game.

So you meet a woman, you can be a little bit cocky and funny, you can ask her a couple of normal questions, ask here wheres shes from, where she goes to school.. than say ok I gotta go back to my friends or whatever, turn your head as if you are going to leave, turn back and say.. oh, do you have e-mail?.. ok, right it down.. and blah blah blah..

when you meet her again, you continue where you stopped. But it is essential that you keep your status higher than her. Tease her and bust her balls, but show that you are an inteligent guy who has standards and that she can mess up her chances with you.

You can even talk about the time when a girl messed up her chances with you. Women respond to this very powerfully.

But for PUAs sake, start working on your inner game.

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You didn't do anything wrong, she just got really weird out and embarrassed after getting drunk and sleeping in the same ben as you - awkward, girls hate awkwardness.....

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How would i go about doin this with out coming off as a bragger or bigheaded. what would be a good indirect way to do this?

Ok, let me give you an example of how you can do that indirect.

I had a girl that we`ve been texting for a while. Than, I noticed that I was calling her more than she was calling me, I texted her twice she texted me once.

So one day, I decided to put this to a test.

I sent her a message "Hey, do you have time for a coffe, Im gonna be in town for like an hour than I gotta split"

Her response: "No sorry, I gotta work than I gotta go on a practice and than I have all this buch of stuff to do later, maybe next time.. where youre going later?"

Me: "too bad. No I thought as well Im in town, we can meet. Im going to see a friend, SHE invited me over for a weekend. Ok talk to you next time by "

Her response: "Ooo a friend? Well who does she might be? What you forgot about me already? Well maybe we can meet for a coffe"

Me: "No no I dont want to ruin your plans. Go have fun I gotta split anyway. by"

Her: "O no you wount get rid of me that easily. Call me when youre in town. I want to hear all about it"

Anyways, I called her.. and had sex with her on the car.


This stuff is so powerfull if you can do it right. This example was indirect, you can try it and see what happens.

But the point is I wasnt needy, insecure.. I was just offering a coffe.


You said that you are affraid of comming of as a bragger. my answer- who cares.

You live your life for you, and if its true, you will never come off a bragger. Women dont see men who talk about their other women as braggers. They see them as attractive, that other women are interested in and so they gotta have them over the other girl.

Just start talking about other girls with her. Talk to her about a girl that was eyeing you in the line and that it made you feel uncomfortable..but showing that you werent really uncomfortable.

And lastly, dont get stuck to this ONE girl that you gotta have her. Move on, find another one and than do the same thing.

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sounds like gold to me. I'll definitely give it a shot and let you know how it goes.