ok, so there's a "friend" of mine that is def a HB9+. i've known her for a couple yrs, but deep down inside, i've always been attracted to her. there was a lil spark between us a couple years back when we used to hang, and we kissed a couple times, but nothin more than that.

now when we get around each other, i sometimes feel an attraction between us (there's kino & flirtation goin on), then there are times when we act like just friends.

so i'm not sure if i'm in the "just friends" category, or what.

what can i do to find out, and possibly phase-shift this girl??

FD ( False Disqualifier) - I love hanging out with you ure company just feels rite but i dt think we can hang out anymore im attracted to you , rite now im trying so hard not to kiss you

The above lines i gave you should tell you where the girl is at if she feels it she will let you kiss her

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

it's taken you 2 years to stick yourself in the friend zone, this isn't going to be an easy climb out.

You're going to have to get her to open in a different way than just "friend talk"

those sound great, and i'll try that, but do i have to be willing to lose her as a friend? it would be nice to get in the sexual comfort zone with her, but not at the expense of our friendship. i'd rather jus keep her as a friend, n just find other HBs out dere.

Don't worry about the outcome; Be like NIKE "Just Do it" If you lose her you lose her. Life goes on man , in fact if she does go away let her go away she will find her away back to you again.
With you current mindset you will not gain anything , my opinon is go and get her in fact tell her come here a sec i want to tell you a secret look her in the eyes kiss her , and dnt say you're sorry;

SHE IS YOU'RES YOU JUST DNT KNOW IT YET

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

lol...true true. i have to remember, i'm the prize. thanx alot!