I'm in comfort with an hb 8.
Her lmr is pretty high, so i try to change locations a lot.
Yesterday we were at my apartment and she wasnt comfortable, so i took her to a pub to have a drink and talk before she had the chance to leave.
Today she had to go shopping for a dress and i went with her. After the third shop i wanted to kiss her, as we had done often, but she refused, i just felt like such a tool and, after one more shop i just left. Don't think she knows it was because she refused the kiss though.
Now i am home, thinking the whole thing over.
In the beginning my game was tight. I was always busy. I let her chase me and i teased her a lot. She had fun.
In comfort i started to change. I realize this now. When my body starts to recognize the oportunity for sex it clouds my game like too much alcohol and weed.
This is something i have to work on.

Any tips on how to handle this?

now i'm just a newb but it sounds like she retook control and you didnt punish her right after she did something wrong, when i go in for a kiss with a girl and she denys me i just laugh and walk off, and talk to the nearest girl. and it kinda seems like you're in AFC status going shopping with her, for real bro? thats why he she has gay and female friends. the only way i'd set foot shoppping with a chick is for sexual party favors. just a thought.