I don't know if I m doing something wrong, but when I use cocky funny lines, I get laughs etc but then I can't tell if the IOIs I get are real or not.

I m not sure if you get what I mean so I ll try to give some examples: (note that its translated from greek so its not exactly the same )

- her: Can you give me a french.. (cant remember what she wanted but it doesnt matter)
- me: A french kiss? Hey I told you I 'm not that easy!!

- me: Do you want cuddling or massage? (while massaging her back, sitting on her ass at the beach)
- her: Do whatever you want to me. (relaxing)
- me: Ooh! I just met you yesterday and you re hitting on me?
- her: *laughs*


I hope you get the point and feel free to correct me if I m saying bullshit, I m a major AFC anyway.

So my problem is, since everything is kind of said in this "joke context", I can't tell if she's (a) getting my signals and if (b) her IOIs are real or she's just joking around.

Please help me!

I would say it depends how they say it...

I she laughs and looks you in the eye with a smile then I would take it as an IOI.

Truthfully the fact that she lets you touch her is an IOI - I find it easiest to automatically assume that the girl is interested in me and act accordingly, the girl will then follow your frame of mind.

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