Met a girl last week, number closed. a buttload of people wished her happy bday wednesday on facebook including me, out of all those people she invited only me out to the bar she said, "to hang with your homies, ill be there too" we have mutual friends and some of her friends were there. I couldnt come out but i told her i'd take her out next time, and she said she would hold me to it.

what do you guys think of this text convo was it a little too aggressive?

Me: i got ignored last night, but i'll try one last time, hi HB8.
HB8: Hi, danny91664! haha im so sorry..i hit the bar last night and im still recovering
Me: u sound like my type of girl Bday girl. I know a good spot to recover from alcohol poisoning.
HB8: haha sweet! Let me in on the secret!
Me: Yep. food's great there. To keep it a secret i'd have to blindfold u. but that'd be taking things too fast dont u think?
HB8: haha wth! ur crazy danny91664..too much
Me: They close after lunch. if ur still down, i'd love to take u. No blindfold. Just pinky promise you won't tell the world my secret.
HB8: Haha, hmm, this is a friendly invite right? Well im booked this coming week, im catching up on work after askin for 6 days off work :/
Me: You know your priorities, i like that. Don't worry, we'll try again next time and brunch is as friendly as it could get HB8.

maybe it was too aggressive for a girl that just got out of a 3yr relationship. any thoughts?

Hey man, Im no master PUA yet, but ok at texting, I'm maybe wrong in parts but I'll share my opinion. I dont think you did too great overall, some of the texts I thought where great, others not so much.

Your opener was average, but it got an ok responce so it worked
Shouldnt say your my kinda girl, you should disqualify yourself alittle. Should have teased her, something like.

"Ha your such a lightweight, you'd never be cool enough to roll with me, although I know a good recovery spot x"
I loved the blindfold part, but you shouldnt have asked her opinion! Should have done something like this.

"hmmm do u like great food? and Its a secret so gunna have to blindfold you, so I'd bring a scarf :p"

Never make it out like there doing you a favour letting you take them out, always the other way round.

If shes asks if its friendly, thats not great tbh, im not sure I could steer this were you want it to go, but Im no expert, just use this a practice and move on man, but hope this will be helpful.