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I just really hate rides aswell i wouldnt know anyone there.
I'm sure they have things there other than rides... nothing frustrates me like a good ol' carnival game that is damn near impossible to win no matter how close you get or how much money you spend on it.... and when you do win, you get a stuffed animal you either end up giving to someone else or it ends up in your attic

. But seriously, carnivals can be fun. It's a good opportunity to befriend new people and score some points with her friends. Just be laid back and have a good time.
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I decided for those 2 reasons i would be out of my comfort zone and didnt want to look like a baby clinging for dear life while were on the rollor coasters.
Sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone in order to expand yourself. Get some new experiences and live. Even if you look like a "baby clinging for dear life", who cares? Everyone is there to enjoy being out and enjoy having company. No one is going to hound you for the rest of your life on how you reacted on a rollercoaster... unless you have my friends haha.
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Am i an idiot for turning her down or should i just suck it up and go and tell her my other plans fell through?
That is really up to you. You said you had no other plans, so do you want to sit there and do nothing (assuming you make no plans) or do you want to go to a carnival with a girl you like?