So hears the deal. I met this really amazing hot girl the other day. She's 18 i'm 24. We've talked on the phone and text a few times. I'm notoriously bad at thinking of things to say to girls. I was going to send her a message today but didnt want it to sound boring. Ive heard that "neg messages" here and there are good.

Like insted of saying "Hey beautiful what are you up to today?".

Something like "Hey geek what are you up to today?".

Any ideas of any neg messages i could say?

Thanks any help would be appreciated.

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that should help you out man

-Fate

Yeh good link man, I guess that's /thread lol but anyway...

imho I'd be careful with that type of text. Depends, if you know she'll take it as a joke, like if you spoke to her and teased her as being a 'geek' then a 'hey geek' text is cool.

But I would be more careful if I was kinda randomly 'negging' her by text. Sometimes girls you don't know that well can read texts like that wrong imo.

I think 'neg' comments are what you do when you wanna try and bring her down a peg or two in a playful way. Like if she's thinking you're seriously getting into her, you say a negative comment to just let her know she ain't quite got the hold over you she thinks she has. And you do it in a playful way just to let her know, yeah I'm interested, but don't get too full of yourself, I ain't that bothered...

imo it has to be called for to 'neg' a girl you're trying to pull. You can't just randomly do it, especially over text. They can take it as a bit weird or something sometimes.

But I am not a PUA, just some normal guy, I used to be fairly good with women, then I fell in love with one and got a mortgage, almost got married too. Now she's dumped me and I'm back on the market. I've realised 6 years is a long time, there's a lot about 'the chase' I've forgotten, so that's why I'm here. Take my advice at your peril lol!