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| Tender Branson | PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 2:42 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 14, 2009 3:21 am Posts: 13 | | Me and this girl have messaged each other a few times back and forth, and she realized that we used to work together and know each other.
Her: lol yea thats it i remember you...we used to be like friends but i guess you dont remember me!!!
Whats a good response to that? I don't want to be really lame and just say yeah I remember you.
Also what would be a good way to get this to lead to a hang out?
Thanks.
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| AceSpade | PostPosted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:29 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Jan 27, 2007 5:44 am Posts: 57 Location: Los Angeles | | Approach my advice with care as I am rusty but:
"we used to be like friends but I guess you don't remember me!!!"
...totally seeking your validation, don't give her the answer she is expecting
"oh i remember you" = no bueno amigo.
It would help if you put more of the conversation in context, I'm assuming this is facebook or mysepace. But the start of the good response may be:
"Haha that's funny, bla bla bla" (Don't even engage the desire for validation, leave her hanging a little)
Post more of the convo and background info if you want a good way to lead to a hang out...
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| kcdclan | PostPosted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:53 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sun Jun 07, 2009 12:06 pm Posts: 273 Location: Hawaii | | O yea I remember you ... you that one with a really cute smile... _________________ -----------------------------
BOSS DK
http://facebook.com/kcdclan<--- myspace
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| bucknast | PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 6:36 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2008 6:45 am Posts: 14 | | i never like to use something too direct, i usually go with a little c/f, but make sure she knows you're joking around cuz sarcasm is hard to convey in text. something like "oh yeah i kinda remember you now, sorry i usually only remember cool people haha jk". it's important to take the pressure off her after that by giving something she can easily reply to like "but yeah my bad, we should chill sometime and get reacquainted"
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