Well I was at a party at a apartment a few nights ago and I started talking to this girl outside who was smoking around alot of other people that were smoking too. I think that she was a little drunk but could still hold an intelligent conversation. Anyways this is how it went down, not word for word:

I asked her her name and we had a little chit chat about the party, then she asked me where I went to school, and what I was planning on doing. I told her that I wasn't sure and I was just going to community college to find something that I was interested in, then I asked about her. she told me that she is going into psychology, then I did a little DHV about how I actually read a couple of things on body language and she asked what her body language was saying, so I told her that the way she blew her smoke showed that she was a confident and positive person. She ate it up and was showing quite a few IOI's and touching me. Then she started talking about where she worked and I said "why are we talking about work that's boring, and I'm sorry to say your starting to sound like a boring person, to redeem yourself you gotta tell me 3 interesting things that you plan on doing this summer" I don't quite remember what they were but I made sure to Neg a bit then Kino and she seemed to respond. Then I went, "you look like your tired of standing wanna sit down somewhere" and since she was next to the door she led the way to the dance floor where there was a couch that we sat on, and there was someone that she knew and just started talking to and I was kinda out of the conversation and it was loud to begin with. So after a few minutes she pretty much just laid there with me awkwardly trying to talk, and she left to go to the bathroom and then after that I could get her alone and cockblocked at every turn.

Is there anything that I could have done to make a stronger connection and even get a k-close? any help would be much appreciated.

Dude you opened bady but you changed the level of conversation well or she did w,e you got to the point wherer you should have been kino and then some
you coulda f closed her she was into you.at least from what i get.

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should have said to the girl when she started talking to the other person "introduce me to your friend its the polite thing to do" i go to bars that has loud music so i get these interuption all the time. seems to work great, then you have to befriend the obstacle and when you done that you can isolate your target again. Thats what i do and works great for me.

Well, to start with, in most common party routines the thing is to pick up a girl (the way you did, although i think you should not mention the body language thing-cause its not... good-, you could simple demonstrate another DHV) and then disappear from the party with her holding your arm (thats a good kino by the way), then bla bla bla... you know what to do. This is because we can avoid that way the situation that you did described with the girl talking to A FRIEND and alienate you
but because she is probably polite TRIES to talk to you.


well thats my opinion guys..



be nice cause thats my first post in the community

..peace

ya you should have told a DHV story, opinion question, or anything interesting. just because her friends talk to her doesn't mean you can't still hold her attention

and you should have isolated her further by taking her outside and k-closed her

you still did good though!!! the only way someone can learn is by making mistakes

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yeah, your opening by asking her name is low value, luckily she kept going into convo so thats not the only thing. you need a better plan than that of where youre going with your life. this is something i struggled with, but you should come off as a guy who is going places. say you wanna write a novel, something, anything as long as it says you may be rich/successful someday. you were lucky to isolate this target it sounds like to me but the point is you did isolate. next time try taking the girl by the arm and choosing your own spot where you can keep talking. maybe get a couple interesting stories down and then kino escalate. if you have any questions about any of this, feel free to pm me

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