Hey what bout the whole mouse with the string thing.......keep teasin her...if she knows that your effectivly hers, then shes wont be interested. My advice is to stand her up, but with a damn fine excuse!!!!! Then drop a bombshell on her, such as, I bin thinkin a lot bout you, she'll come running!!! Any comments welcomed, always tryin to improve my game!!!

And you are saying that gave u an edge ! where is this conv. going?

It'll be interesting to see how things develop between the two of U. Kindly keep us posted.

I wouldn't reccomend dropping a bombshell like you suggested. Especially early on, it could ruin the whole thing. If you plan on telling her about how you feel it definitely shouldn't be within the first week of meeting her. Another important point is, if you CHOOSE to tell her how you feel make sure it doesn't slip out indirectly.

Lol, well you put me in my place

No the edge i was talking about was my reply. I wasn't happy with what she had replied but i must admit i kinda half saw it coming, shes a smart girl and hasn't really fallen for 1 liners.
I just wanted to say something and not leave it at that -> AFC mistake i guess.

I havn't received a msg from her nor have i tried to contact her since ( it was sat or sunday, now its tuesday night). We are in exam period so im not fussed and
i'll maybe see her out as i'll lure our mutual friends out and i know if they go, there is a good chance she will come.

Been reading alot of stuff on the forums about forms of kino, good back up lines if she gives shit test ect. It will be interesting to see what becomes of this.

I'll keep you posted.

thats a valid piont actually......however is this becoming a case of one-itis...? lol!!! prehaps giving up for a while and retrying later????

First in my opinion the fake "massage" text was lame, AFC tactics. And that is in no way meant to be disrespectful just IMHO. If they blow you off, or "outgame" you, as the beatles said let it be.
And dont think girls are lame. They have game as well, in most cases more than the avg. male. Learn from them, and how they use their game and reverse it back on them. I met a girl last weekend and when she told me her name she asked for my hand and spelt out J-I-L-L, for Jill, and said "thats my name". Obviously she had game.

Troutbum83 said: Yeah no probs I came up with that. But yeah this girl pretty much slotted Blondeisbest" into the lets just be friends zone. The only AFC thing you could do is agree with her request to be friends and to not hate her.

She sounds like a curveball anyway, just move on.

Ok so i guess this is a MINI field report cause theres not much to report.. (lol):

Had to work and shit but ended up going out and meeting up with mutual friends and she was there ( i thought she would , so i was pretty keen to try some new stuff)

Came into the club full of energy, got some high fives from a fair few people = DHV
Pumped into the dance floor had lots of fun, she was there, she saw me gave me a massive smile and a wave... I dont know why ( well i do kinda) but i just smiled and kinda kept dancing as if nothing important happened...

I thought this would be fine, she kinda looked dissapointed but was still smiling/having fun. After massive amounts of DHV and chatting to a few groups i went over to her and went for some kino ( touch of hand for dancing- it was on dance floor)

She took her hand back straight away, as if she was shocked and said :" Why would i even bother dancing with you since you didnt say hello"

me: *wink* Hello *wave* (went to grab her hand- no reaction) She looked away, and thats when my friends came up and said they were going home ( they were taking me and her home too normally)
After that i bailed to a diff club to meet up with a friend whod been texting me so she could boost my spirits so i wouldnt feel like such a tool.

In other words, i hate her, but like her at the same time. I swear she has bipolar because she is so sweet sometimes and a mega hoe/slut the next.

BlondeIsBest knows its time to move on.... I think

After a little thought,

I think she might be wanting someone very direct, i came to this conclusion when i was thinking back to our previous messages. Her first ever message was that she should have " totally kissed me" and that she was "kicking herself"...

Maybe as a last hope before pulling the pin on the grenade and blowing myself up, i should be very direct.

Some girls love to be in control right?

If she looked dissapointed this indicates that it hit her. So you had some control there, but then YOU approach her and gave her the power to refuse YOU. So then she regained control.

Just don't talk to her anymore, if she really liked you she will come back if not then that's ok too and you should just move on. This situation is not good for you, you're not in a relationship and she's giving you this so what would it be in a real one. You had to give her the feeling that you were prepared to lose her.

Oh and about that last idea : DO NOT do that. Get out with some dignity.

" I met a girl last weekend and when she told me her name she asked for my hand and spelt out J-I-L-L, for Jill, and said "thats my name". Obviously she had game."

I love this, I'm going to use this!

Isnt that basically what I said to do in the first place (minus the ridiculous bombshell idea) It was dissmissed but is now being brought up again prehaps this shows that its the best dicision??!!!??!!??!! If u happy to just get over her now then what you got to lose by trying?

dude she is playing you.
Yu don't want her .. why do you want her... your far to busy to wast ur time with her.. she isnt even that hot...
You freaking game her then you forget who you are and get gammed on.....
Ditch her when she comes back act as if you dont know her and do your own thing...
make her chase you,make her want to talk you home,make her want to come over.
Act as if it didn't matter if she was in your life or not because it dosn't matter for real.

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