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PostPosted: Thu Jun 04, 2009 2:11 pm 
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There is this girl that I’ve had few interactions with but enough to make her attracted and DHV and qualify. So I was running my game as usual and she brings up the fact that she’s talking to some guy, and I was like cool he’s seems like your type, basically building her expectation for him-general bf destroyer stuff. Then I stop talking to her for a while, and then I see her at a local event, seeing her there sparked my interest all over again.

So I text her that day saying something like “when I saw you today I wanted to talk about all the amazing times we shared…but I forget we don’t have any because of the husband (fake)”. So then she texts me back “haha we aren’t even dating yet” then I basically say “we should hang out and get to know each other” and she was like “sounds good to me”. So everything is good and a few days later she screams my name out of her car at a local store and I say “hey (name)!!!” and I basically keep walking. She was with two other guys and I was with my family. So I don’t know if she took me walking away as me blowing her off, but a few days after that situation she went into facebook relationship with the guy she said she’s talking to.

I have a feeling she is just playing him, because she seems way out of his league plus I never see them together she’s always with other guys (that are far more alpha). So she came into my workplace and I saw her leaving then she came back and was looking at me but she never approached and neither did I (working).

So I want to at least start talking to this girl again but I don’t know what to say??? Should I acknowledge her new relationship? How would you go about initiating a chat with this girl. What would you say???

Note – This girl is quick and smart, don’t think I’ve totally pulled down that bitch shield yet. But she is still attracted and very responsive.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:13 pm 
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I have a feeling she is just playing him, because she seems way out of his league plus I never see them together she’s always with other guys (that are far more alpha). So she came into my workplace and I saw her leaving then she came back and was looking at me but she never approached and neither did I (working).
There is no such things as leagues. To think so is an AFC mind set.
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So I want to at least start talking to this girl again but I don’t know what to say???
You could start with saying "hi". I know it may seem stupid. But its a lot better than saying nothing and letting her go without even doing anything.
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Should I acknowledge her new relationship?
Thats up to you. For me personally I wouldn't as thats her business not mind. But it sounds like she is dating around anyway so I wouldn't even bother asking her.
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How would you go about initiating a chat with this girl. What would you say???
I would make some chit chat with her with some flirting while acting disinterested in her, which you actually been kinda doing now. In other words I would go with a push pull game big time with this girl. As she knows she is attractive and can get guys easy. Make your self hard to get as she be a lot more interested in getting you as your not falling for her like the other guys I bet.
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Note – This girl is quick and smart, don’t think I’ve totally pulled down that bitch shield yet. But she is still attracted and very responsive.
If her bitch shield was not down she would not show signs of interest in you. She be more blowing you off if anything.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 1:48 am 
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Thanks for the push man. I really like how you picked apart my entire situation. I texted her today with something as simple as “hey, hows your summer been” she responded and asked me about mines we made a little small talk then I said “…we still are going to have 2 hang out this summer” and she responded “yahh! We will!”

Never brought up the other guy, pretty much acted like I didn’t even know about it. Thanks for the speedy advice.

Note – Check out my first FR post in the “field report section” this texting thread happened the same day as my worst day 2 ever, really boosted my spirits. But any advice there would also be helpful.


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